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Nov 04, 2011 21:33

[Filtered away from Soundwave & Skyfire... although not very well. He's in no state to do it properly.]

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[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 04:48:50 UTC

[ Frown. Headtilt. ] Well... why'd you cheat on him? I mean, there are reasons, and then there are stupid reasons, if you know what I mean.

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 05:07:27 UTC

I was drunk and I kissed someone. I had not meant to...

[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 07:00:55 UTC

Okay, and when you say drunk, d'you mean like a little tipsy, or seriously impaired, cannot walk a straight line, should not operate heavy machinery drunk?

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 09:36:41 UTC

... If I had operated heavy machinery I likely would have destroyed the building.

[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 09:56:54 UTC

...um, yeeeeaaah, that qualifies as a "not a complete jerk" reason to cheat. I mean, it's still bad, and your boyfriend's totally allowed to be angry at you for a while, but...

...wait, wait, wait. Back up. You said you kissed them? That's it?

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 10:18:47 UTC

I am aware that it was incredibly horrid of me...

Yes. It was just a kiss, that is all.

[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 10:25:58 UTC

[ FACEPALM. Muttered: ] Oh, Oberon, you can't be serious...

[ Deep breath. ] Okay, that? That's not even cheating. I mean, okay, maybe technically, but really, that's just what drunk people do. I mean, assuming you're a cuddly drunk, but...

Please tell me you told your boyfriend that part too. About the drunkenness and the just a kiss and everything? I mean, you didn't just lead with 'I cheated on you' and not elaborate, right?

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 12:17:13 UTC

Cuddly drunk...

[Yeaaaaaaah, that would be him.]

It is the first thing I told him. That I got drunk and that happened.

And then he said he hated me, and left.

[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 12:29:20 UTC

...oh.

Well then, no offense, but your boyfriend's kind of a jerk.

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 14:14:06 UTC

What? He is not a jerk. He is quite possibly the farthest thing from that... He just. Hates me.

I deserve it.

[video] nobodysfetch November 6 2011, 15:23:28 UTC

Um... you were drunk. That means, by definition, you lacked a few critical things like impulse control and the ability to make good decisions and... What I'm trying to say is drunk kissing? Really not that big a deal.

If he stomped out and said he hates you and won't even listen to an apology because of it, he's either a jerk or a five-year-old.

[video] notsoloyal November 6 2011, 17:39:21 UTC

It seems like a big deal.

And he is in his nine-millions, however I understand the confusion.

[video] nobodysfetch November 7 2011, 00:31:08 UTC

[ She stares blankly for a moment. Nine-millions? That's inconceivably ancient even for fae... and the guy's still acting like this? Wow. May's assessment is leaning toward "jerk". ]

...okay. Emotionally, yes. It probably seems like a big deal. But it's not worth ending a relationship over.

Maybe your boyfriend just needs some cool down time. Give it a day or so, then try to apologize again?

[video] notsoloyal November 7 2011, 04:22:00 UTC

That seems to be the most popular advice. I do not know what I could say.

[video] nobodysfetch November 7 2011, 11:48:29 UTC

[ She sighs a little, and gives him a quiet, soft smile. ] You tell him you love him. That you're sorry, and it won't happen again, and...

Well, after that, it's up to him. If he still hates you and doesn't want to talk, it's his problem, not yours. It's still gonna hurt, but you don't deserve it for what happened. Promise.

[video] notsoloyal November 7 2011, 23:21:42 UTC

... If you say so.

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