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sir_mcgee

Christmas Music Makes Me Happy...

Nov 26, 2005 23:13

And while my post subject may make me happy, something else doesn't. I've come to the realization that I really can't talk to girls very well. If I've known the girl for years as a friend or even as a girlfriend I can talk just fine, but in the last year and some months I have not done well in talking to girls. I feel awkward, uncomfortable, and ( Read more... )

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anonymous November 26 2005, 23:03:09 UTC

when talking to anyone. not just the opposite sex. do NOT doubt that they want to be talking to u. its all about how u view yourself.if ur ocnfident and have the mindset (while yer talking to them) that they WANT to be talking to you and that you are fun to talk to, then you won't wory about what yer syaing being stupid. and then, you won't come off as awkward or uncomfortable. did that help? maybe not. i try.

lowman82085 November 26 2005, 23:54:20 UTC

dont talk, listen, they love that

lowman82085 November 27 2005, 01:56:32 UTC

ghb

lovable_oaf November 27 2005, 18:37:27 UTC

LISTENING IS GOOD, BUT IT CAN ALSO LEAD TO THE DREADED "BEST FREIND" SYNDROME, WHEN UR TALKING TO HER, JUST BE CONFIDENT, AVOID TOPICS THAT MAKE U UNCOMFORTABLE, AND BE SURE TO ASK ABOUT HER, AND NOT TALK ABOUT URSELF AS MUCH, BUT DONT BE CREEPY ABOUT IT. CIVIL QUESTIONS ONLY

anonymous December 7 2005, 11:13:56 UTC

Rule #1) Don't EVER admit you don't know how to talk to girls. Why? Here's a little secret...NOBODY knows how to talk to girls. They're different. Period. <--I mean that literally. My guess is that there are several women out there that like you, but you might just be looking too hard for that one specific girl ( ... )

sir_mcgee December 7 2005, 18:40:01 UTC

Thank you very much for your advice, Mysterious Stranger. You have left many hints to your identity throughout this comment, along with your somewhat sagelike knowledge, so as I try and implement your advice (which sounds just crazy enough to work), I will try and figure out who you are. Of course you could save me the energy and just tell me...