Je suis deconsole

[sir_slapahoe]

Hi guys.
You may wonder why I'm back on this LiveJournal. The truth is, the new name didn't fit. Not that "Sir Slapahoe" is any more suitable, but more of you know me by this name, so if I'm going to post, here will do.

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whine, whine, whine

[anonymous]

Your whining is annoying. Wake up, splash some water on your face, and look yourself in the mirror to see the PLAYER that you really are and will continue to be so long as you treat each new girl you meet the same way you treat your studies: "always craving the exotic and unknown" to the point you ARE forever lonely. A person is only lonely when they can't be alone with themselves. Start there. Be alone with yourself and unattached to any girl (which you appear to use as ego crutches holding up your emotionally weak skeleton); when you see friends, stay a friend, not a masher trying to get a piece of action. Treat both your male and female friends with respect. If you commit to be some place, show up. Stay single until you really, really like yourself and you don't need girl-crutches. Then, and only then, and not a minute before, and with great respect for the women you approach, find that one special girl that satisfies your cravings and figure out how to spend the rest of your life making her fall in love with you every day

[sir_slapahoe]

Anonymous does not forgive, I see.

I find your judgment of my character harsh and a bit unsound. However, your words are eloquent, and you have clearly put quite a bit of thought and time into your response.

It is true that I am addicted to human interaction. I am a devout friend to my peers, though I think my relations with close female friends are sometimes strained by my desire to keep them close to me. I would be truly sad if I could no longer hang out alone with one of my girl-friends because of her obligation to another boy.

I'm glad I didn't lose your message in your very offensive medium, Anon, because some things you've said ring true. Good night.

Re: whine, whine, whine

[happymrsnowman]

Wow, this sounds like a page out of a self help book or something. While the argument holds merit, I don think it has anything to do with what Reid's saying in his post. You sound like a bitter ex or something, your argument is based around his "disrespectful nature" around girls. You argue he needs girl crutches, I really beg to differ. I think you need to get your fact right.

Re: whine, whine, whine

[vagabondbard]

Naw, I think the ex- has a few solid points of constructive crittisism that has a large part to do with what Reid wrote. Maybe.

[vagabondbard]

I'm not going to read what anon. wrote and as such will write what I want to, not a response to someone else's words

[sir_slapahoe]

Urm. Trav, I think you've misunderstood my position towards dating, relationships, etcetera.

Severely so. I've not been on a single date since I matriculated into the University. Really the most romantic thing I've done could be classified hanging-out-with-friends. And I've cut back on flirting in general. Yeah.

[vagabondbard]

Well then, yet another case of me being wrong and writing something about it :)

I happily admit my mistake and move on, unlike some people.... without names.

[shuttafly]

Well, first of all, if they let you fall from their 'graces' because of your natural human shortcomings, they wouldn't be any kind of friends, would they? You do not need to worry about that in the least

[nocturnalblue]

Good God Reid!

what have you done to these women!?

lol

good advice, regardless of being harsh

someone had to do it as obviously the rest of the people who would reply to this would do so with sympathy and in a consoling manner

you're one of the happiest people I know!

cheer up

don't let these silly things get you down

it's not worth it