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[sirpila]

Call me stupid, call me retard or call me fucktard. call me what you want. But i don't know what woman want. that simple. They don't want to tell me what the hell they want, so how am i suposed to know. I sometimes think they don't know want they want either

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[rockmylobster]

I want a nice, smart, cute boy who will treat me well. He has to be STRAIGHT!

[sirpila]

well im nice, very smart....i can't really tell if im cute...yet i do treat girls nicely...im don't overwhelm them or anything..but i do look after them and what not...yet im still single am i

[strongangels]

honesty, sincerity, common sense... just for a few things. everyone is different, though. i'm sorry for whatever troubles you may be having. :/

[sirpila]

don't be sorry for me...i hate been pity :P....it's just i can't read woman at all...i try...you just have some kind of weird language going

[strongangels]

i'm not trying to give you a pitty party, i'm just saying. i understand and i know how you feel. even women don't understand other women sometimes. and most women don't understand men's behaviors. i think? regardless, good luck. :|

[sirpila]

how hard is it to read man??in general we want, sex, we want food, we want sports.. of course there are exceptions like myself but you get the point

[home_grown_cl]

I agree with what the other 2 girls said whole-heartedly. To add to it...someone who I can have fun around and be myself, someone I can just chill out with, etc. I think your problem (if I can be the analyzer here real quick) is that you're so set on having a girlfriend that every girl you meet you automatically try to put into that role, rather than just trying to get to know someone. I think that that causes two problems...one, it probably freaks the girl out, and two, it upsets you when things don't work out. You're 21 years old...go out with your friends, have fun, meet a bunch of people, and don't stress about it. When you least expect it you'll find exactly what you're looking for. In the meantime, being all depressed about it just makes life miserable for you and turns off potential interests. You are a nice, cute, smart boy...you just need to get out and meet different people and show them that. Don't hate me for this, you did ask for advice :)

[sirpila]

thank you..honest answer are hard to find...and i don't think is that bad. i just look around and it suck sometimes. that everyone is like making out with their partners and im sitting alone in the corner, you know what i mean? is not that i want those chicks, it's just i've been hurt so fucking much in the past 5 years, it's kiind tickles my funny bone.

[home_grown_cl]

Maybe that's the problem...if you're sitting alone in a corner feeling sorry for yourself that's not going to make the girls want to talk to you. Most of the girls who are at clubs making out with people will never see those people again...that's not what you're looking for. Seriously, stressing out and being depressed and everything is only going to make it worse...go out and do different stuff...it'll not only keep your mind off "being alone", but it will also allow you to meet new people. The more new people you meet the more potential there is to meet someone to spend time with...and when you do meet someone, take the time to get to know them as friends, don't try to push the girlfriend thing immediately.

[copsarebacon]

isnt it ironic that you are the nicest out off all of your guy friends, but for some reason your asshole friend is the one that usually gets chicks?

FINAL SUGGESTION

[hedache]

ok i have 2 suggestions but you'll only get to hear one of them, the nice one... if i tell the other one, i'll be the mean guy, as i already don't have a good profile...

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU GIRLS WANT??who the fuck cares, why do you care... if you wanna be yourself, you shouldn't worry about what they want, but what you can offer them... it's like the "what can i do for my country, what does the country do for me" type of thing in a funny way... you should just be yourself and offer what you have and not worry about them, and if anyone likes it, you'll know, and that'll be the right person anyways

[copsarebacon]

that answer, is quite simple. Women want what they can't have. Go up to a girl and tell her that shes beutiful, you're chances just went out the window. Go up to a girl and show absolutley no attraction to them, they want you simply because they cant have you. Its also irionic that the girls that say they just want a nice guy are usually in love with assholes.

[sirpila]

yeah... i learn that the hard way.. my ex was in love with an asshole before me and that fuck our relationship big time