confused

[sirwibin]

Why does the girl you like always talk to you whenever she breaks up with another guy. Then want to hang out or go on a date, and then before you ever get a chance finds another guy and goes with him, then stops talking to you

Comments

[orpheros]

Maybe they're going for another guy because you're not acting as interested in THEM. "Well, he doesn't seem to like me that much.. this other guy does, so I'll go with him instead!" Goes both ways, ya know. As I recall from just my friend experience with you, you seemed to not show any sort of.. anything, whenever I talked to you. Maybe that's why all these girls aren't working out.

[sirwibin]

Not this girl.
She knows for sure that I like her.

[orpheros]

Sometimes just -knowing- isn't enough. Us girls need confirmation that you like us. You have to SHOW it. Make a big effort to show you're interested. I know that's really not your style, but I think it'd work a bit better.

[sirwibin]

hard to show somebody when you dont even get a chance to go on a date before they find another guy.

I constsantly bug her to do things, but she never seems to break down and do something with me. I think i'm just that constant she can rely on everytime she breaks up with a guy, somebody who makes her feel good and wanted, but then she just goes for one of these lame fucks again instead of me.

I do show i like somebody though. to much.
I can be a bit pushy when i like somebody.
but with her i never get the chance anyway you look at it.

[holly_wood86]

I'm sending you a virtual hug across the border. Lame I know, but I can't think of anything else I could say/do to help you feel better.