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sitheil

I hate cupid... little bastard

Feb 14, 2005 11:55

Charlie wants me to move to San Diego. The only reason I'm questioning going is my mom. And the fact that I feel that the only reason he thinks this is the best plan of action is it makes it easier on him. He'll get to have me with him AND still be able to be with his friends... no decisions, no sacrifices to be made. The thing is, I'm soooo close ( Read more... )

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Trust me... anonymous February 14 2005, 17:43:05 UTC

If you think you can change him - you can't. It's pointless to try and think things will change if you move in with him or he promises that things will change. I have been down that road many times with my former relationship.

If the man is treating you bad then you need to tell him straight up how you feel, which I'm sure you have. To sit there, however, and cry yourself to the point of sickness at times is absurd. If someone truely loves you, they would make time for you - simple as that.

You're not weak either, if you were, you would have stopped everything a long time ago. Love is a picky game, especially love that involves long distances appart. Until you're able to visit the other on your own, with your own money, under your own rules, it's nearly impossible to stay close with that person... Just remember... if someone truely loves you, they will make time to spend with you - no matter what.

Re: Trust me... sitheil February 15 2005, 11:41:49 UTC

I've spoken with him and we've got some initial understanding. I know this is going to take plenty more fights and explanations, but no matter what, I'm sticking this out. I'm no angel here, either, so who am I to give up because he's pissing me off? Thank you for the advice. It is very true.

'Oh, why can't we break away from all this, just you and I, and lodge with my fleas in the hills?' kenderkin88 February 14 2005, 19:01:33 UTC

Poor Nicole! I read your rants, even if I don't always comment. I'm sorry you're having such difficulties with Charlie an' your relatives an' such.. Wish I could help!

To make you feel better, look at the splendidly handsome man that is my icon. Yum yum yum.. ^.^

Re: 'Oh, why can't we break away from all this, just you and I, and lodge with my fleas in the hills sitheil February 15 2005, 11:43:26 UTC

I know that people actually read this and that I'm not being ignored by everyone, but I get that feeling sometimes, so I react as if it's true. And, thank you. The icon does make me feel better. Look at that smile... ::swoons::