blsutrgugh.
Nothing like finding out one of your closest friends is a homophobe. Urgh.
Now, while I may not be gay (or even bisexual) myself, I am very against that whole mindset. I see absolutely nothing wrong with not "being the norm" when it comes to sexuality.
Using religion and "it's a choice!" as a reason for that opinion is fucking disgusting. (which he also said about homosexuality! also take note he completely disregarded the fact that females can be homosexual too, and he automatically assumes every gay guy is out for lots of sex!
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I mean, he's a nice guy, and he's helped me a LOT over the years, but this is just fucking jarring knowledge. Suppose I did happen to be gay, would the eight years I've known him just have been a waste?
...I'm not sure what to do. Ugh.
e: said person isn't someone I talk to online, but rather someone I know in person
I'm also very worried I'm miswording this in an offensive way. I'm really, really hoping I'm not actually doing that... and my apologies if I've managed to.
Now, while I may not be gay (or even bisexual) myself, I am very against that whole mindset. I see absolutely nothing wrong with not "being the norm" when it comes to sexuality.
Using religion and "it's a choice!" as a reason for that opinion is fucking disgusting. (which he also said about homosexuality! also take note he completely disregarded the fact that females can be homosexual too, and he automatically assumes every gay guy is out for lots of sex!
)
I mean, he's a nice guy, and he's helped me a LOT over the years, but this is just fucking jarring knowledge. Suppose I did happen to be gay, would the eight years I've known him just have been a waste?
...I'm not sure what to do. Ugh.
e: said person isn't someone I talk to online, but rather someone I know in person
I'm also very worried I'm miswording this in an offensive way. I'm really, really hoping I'm not actually doing that... and my apologies if I've managed to.