you should tell someone, let your parents know. tell your therapist. even let a friend know and hint to them you want to tell someone but dont know how, and they will probably tell someone themselves.
but you have to want the help. really think about it. i know what you feel though, when you say you want to eat and not feel guilty. :( my dad's totally clueless as well. but i really dont think hed be as surprised about it if i sat him down and told him. it could be the same with your parents they might have a hint but dont know what to do themselves. i know my dad doesnt know what to do about anything pretty much when it comes to me and big situations like that.
its obvious my parents know but like, then its not obvious. like i know my dad knows but im sure he dosent know what to do and my mom thinks im like on a diet and i only eat food i want like chips and cookies and cake (as if) and i want to eat, but maybe i can be put on some kind of diet and my dad signed me up for a gym in may thats still getting built but it should be done mid july. thanks alot ♥
i know this sounds weird, but have you ever kept track of what your parents eat? mine knew, sort of, but when i started whatching them i realized where all my tips and tricks were really coming from...you might want to tell someone who if they turn out to be bad news, they don't have any influence over you. at least for the first part of 'therapy'.
Your parents could be in denial...it is a real phenomenon (your parents may not be "faking" that they can't see it) that deals with information that could be psychologically harmful.
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even let a friend know and hint to them you want to tell someone but dont know how, and they will probably tell someone themselves.
but you have to want the help. really think about it.
i know what you feel though, when you say you want to eat and not feel guilty. :(
my dad's totally clueless as well. but i really dont think hed be as surprised about it if i sat him down and told him. it could be the same with your parents they might have a hint but dont know what to do themselves.
i know my dad doesnt know what to do about anything pretty much when it comes to me and big situations like that.
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stay stronggg
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but like, then its not obvious.
like i know my dad knows but im sure he dosent know what to do
and my mom thinks im like on a diet and i only eat food i want
like chips and cookies and cake (as if)
and i want to eat, but maybe i can be put on some kind of diet
and my dad signed me up for a gym in may thats still getting built
but it should be done mid july.
thanks alot
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but i dont want to say stuff in frontof my brother
and sister..
thanks
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love.
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I'd start off by telling your therapist.
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your not SKINNY but your not FAT.
thankkkkkkkkkkkkkkkks mom.
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Yeah, thanks mom. That helped me a lot.
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no offence
how much do u weigh now?
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