opinions

[skittysday]

Everyone has the right to one, but no one has the right to judge, and there is a very fine line between the two, when you take what you think about a situation and look at another person and say they are wrong, that is judging, an opinion on something good or bad is strictly that, it is across the board, for example, it is my opinion that fathers

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[viciouswolfie]

Cheating is something that does come in black and white.

And personally, I feel that I can say anyone who cheats is a total scumbag liar because I have never and will never cheat on someone. So yeah, I think that does give me the right to call that judgement.

I've been cheated on. I didn't give anyone the chance to do it to me again.

[skittysday]

you're right, it does come in black and white, but whether you have cheated or not, you are not utterly innocent of wrongdoing yourself. no one is. Ive been cheated on more than once, and if you will recall, the first time i was cheated on, it was plain out and out cheating, steve knew what he was doing and did it because it was there, not because of any other reason. What brad did, happened because of other things going on, the first time i didnt give a second chance and you know he has begged for one, this time i did, for my own reasons, i just wish that you all would support that and be happy for me. Whats going on now, and no im not talking about you....is just wrong in my eyes, because one thing was SAID and yet another is being DONE.

[denylsbloodrose]

I think there is a wronge and a right but there is also a wrong and a right in how you react to something like cheating. I've been cheated on and know friends that have been cheated on. Sometimes there reactions, or revenge, is just as wrong as the act. I don't have solid opinions, they shift because people shift and change just like everything else, they don't change in every way but they do in some ways.

When one makes a decision to give another chance to someone they are also agreeing to act towards the situation in a certain way that would pertain to the situation, if not done so then they have not agreed full heartedly to give the second chance.

Hun, hope things are going well ad I will try and be on later to chat with you. Love ya

[skittysday]

that is exactly what im saying! thank you denyl. I myself have never cheated on anyone in my life, and i dont approve of it in someone else, but i do believe that circumstances can sometimes dictate the action itself, despite the most loyal of people. THIS is what im saying, i was the one hurt here, the others were angry in my defense and while i love them for it, i wish that they could at least attempt to see the truth of what happened instead of sitting in judgement, if anyone has the right to judge, its me.