TimeOut
If you think you know what's really going on, why bother asking?
If my answer is not going to change the way you think I'm feeling, why ask if I'm ok?
If you think you know how I think and what I feel, then you would be living in this hobbit shell that I'm currently in, dealing with the problems that I have to deal with.
Labels don't fit all.
Having been fucked doesn't make you a btm, fucking people doesn't make you a top.
I never claimed to be either, and I don't believe it is any of your fucking business unless you plan on having anal sex with me, or me you.
Friends should know better than to keep repeating something that you specifically told them not to. To which I would like to repeat, hopefully for the last time:
- Unless you've had sex with me and you want the whole world to know, don't drop cryptic comments about my physical attributes. (It stopped being funny after the 9547836 time it has been repeated)
- What I do or do not prefer in the bedroom is my business, don't tell me what role I should or should not be taking. In the event that you find yourself wanting me in a position very badly, that's when this sort of comments are appropriate.
- If I am having "PMS", I would apologise for it, usually immediately after I hang up on you or say something harsh that was uncalled for. Otherwise, as critikal once said, I am angry for a reason, and I don't appreciate being shrugged off as a PMS case.
If you feel very strongly about the way someone treated you, you should have the decency not to repeat the act yourself.