This is the rant that i've been meaning to do for some time, about someone who i think of as 'lollipop girl' ... mainly cause i dont want to embarress her :P
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Lollipop girl has had some bad stuff happen to her, which i really dont think she's dealt with fully. Now she seems to think that getting into a long term relationship with someone she can't communicate with will solve that.
I beg to differ, but my comments about why she should reconsider her marriage, at least for now, have fallen on totally deaf ears.
Ah well, at least you're not quite so crazy when we hang out as mates ;)
Well i hope lollipop girl's fiance (and soon to be husband) has a darn big Y chromosome ... cause he's going to need it to balance it out in a big way.
I do hope that the next chick i find i have a thing for isn't a nutter. They are just too much stress and effort! I want a relationship where i can be me, she can be her ... and we dont have to go mental in the process.
yeah dude, theyre all the same. the past month or so has made me realise why ive been so turned off any form of relationship for however long it's been (a fucking long time) since my last. i'm just gonna stick to having "friends" again until ive built up the patience for the shit you have to put up with..
I figure thats what i'll do, just play it as it comes.
I just pray i dont have someone EVER like this in my life again. It's great to know what 'being in love' is like, but damn, sometimes i wonder if it was worth it.
I figure when the right girl comes along I'll be able to tell by the lack of crap she puts me thru ;)
i dont think there is ever a relationship with less crap to go through, imo it comes down to communication. If you can talk to each other properly, no problem will ever be so bad that you cant deal with it. It's only when people dont express their feelings and point of view, that things go downhill for them.
That's why I place such an emphasis on being really good friends with them before looking at moving onto a physical relationship. That way you already have the communication and you know each other reasonably well.
Another thing I alwasy do is never go to sleep until an argument is resolved. Leaving it for later just makes things worse. I always try to sort it out the day anything bad happens. That applies to any relationship tho, whether it's intimate or just a friend.
Oh, gutsy Mr Anonymous poster, at least post your name.
He's not stalking her, he's trying to keep in contact with a friend, and ensure she's ok. It's what people do about their friends, they care about them. However, with an attitude like that, I don't expect you to have friends.
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Lollipop girl has had some bad stuff happen to her, which i really dont think she's dealt with fully. Now she seems to think that getting into a long term relationship with someone she can't communicate with will solve that.
I beg to differ, but my comments about why she should reconsider her marriage, at least for now, have fallen on totally deaf ears.
Ah well, at least you're not quite so crazy when we hang out as mates ;)
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I do hope that the next chick i find i have a thing for isn't a nutter. They are just too much stress and effort! I want a relationship where i can be me, she can be her ... and we dont have to go mental in the process.
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I just pray i dont have someone EVER like this in my life again. It's great to know what 'being in love' is like, but damn, sometimes i wonder if it was worth it.
I figure when the right girl comes along I'll be able to tell by the lack of crap she puts me thru ;)
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That's why I place such an emphasis on being really good friends with them before looking at moving onto a physical relationship. That way you already have the communication and you know each other reasonably well.
Another thing I alwasy do is never go to sleep until an argument is resolved. Leaving it for later just makes things worse. I always try to sort it out the day anything bad happens. That applies to any relationship tho, whether it's intimate or just a friend.
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I am a christian, and in fact so is she :P
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He's not stalking her, he's trying to keep in contact with a friend, and ensure she's ok. It's what people do about their friends, they care about them. However, with an attitude like that, I don't expect you to have friends.
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I went out with ice cream girl for 9months shortly after I met her at the end of 2002
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