Guilt

[sky79]

Somehow, it seems to be quite a while since I last felt such a strong sense of guilt.

I guess it was all a misunderstanding. But no one can change the fact that the harm was already done. Irreversible.

Do arguments/quarrels really make a couple stronger?

Comments

[fey_as_hell]

I guess it is only true when the both parties are wise enough to make sense of the root of the problem (as to why are they quarrelling in the first place), make active steps to avoid or solve the root of the problem in future and not quarrel again along the same fault lines.

In this way, argument and quarrels are good because they help u understand the other party better.

[sky79]

true indeed.

but sometimes, it's hard not to repeat the mistake cos it's jus due to a clash of character of the two. not that i want to repeat it, but it's jus a very natural reaction on my part.

[sg_guy]

I agree with u. Characters are hard to change and sometimes impossible to change at all. But I guess, both parties shld each give in a little and reach a compromise in the middle.

But then again, how did this characteristics of yours do harm to the relationship? If it is in a very negative way, then it must be reduced to the minimal.

[keewhee]

quarrelling can be a form of communication if it doesn't get too personal

[hydro_c]

Compromise and recognising the flaws. Being a couple I guess, is to accept each other's flaws and finding a resolution / compromise amidst any quarrel. Each party should give each other time...

Hope by now, things are little better.