hmmm

[skygge]

Why is it I always feel compelled to post when agnsting over relationships. I suppose the rest of life has settled itself nicely and there's no reason to feel unhappy about it and thus no need to feel some release. Work is good. Finances are acceptable. Its the fairer sex that bothers me. This whole being ignored thing by the girlfriend is

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[sinda]

Have you tried having a calm discussion that doesn't involve "putting the foot down"? It seems silly to wait until you get incredibly frustrated, rather than just explaining how you feel ignored before it goes that far. She might not realize how her behavior is bothering you, and if you can approach before you get really upset, you might be able to avoid her becoming defensive and having a fight.

[skygge]

She got mad at me for telling her there was a problem and asking to work it out in the first place. Then there were about two weeks of her half ignoring me and only communicating by email every few days. For the last week she's flat out ignored my existence completely.

I've tried reaching out to say lets work this out and talk it through but that would require a response of some sort. I figure if Monday rolls by it will have been over a full week of nothingness and I might as well put myself out of my misery :P

Its probably for the best, our end game goals for when we grow old aren't compatible.

[sinda]

Ahh. In that case, yeah. Sounds like this is probably for the best.