Welcome back! ♥ Hopefully your stay will not be as short-lived [crosses fingersI don't think it's possible to truly "reinvent" oneself, because everything we do becomes an extension of who we already are. Our behaviors and patterns, once recognized, seem like traps. But I think the best we can do is simply to learn to embrace the qualities we have, especially if others already do, and work on our weaknesses
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I'm not sure if I'm bored of them because I've been hanging out with them for several years though. I'm definitely not bored of you guys (Probably because I haven't see you guys for years. XD) But I'm bored with the new people that I've been seeing everyday. Even though I feel like I've barely known them and they barely know me.
I like you too. ♥ I probably more than like you, I love you and I need you. I always come back to you and livejournal because you're unfailingly present.
Well, what I usually do to alleviate that is either make a new journal, or just ignore the previous pages of the old one and KEEP WRITING FORWARD. We're all 3-D streams, and just because the past ain't through with you yet doesn't mean its all that defines you. THE FUTURE IS NOW.
...There is a core component that you can never erase. But maybe that means it will just take a while longer to completely transform. We're still pretty young if you think about it (19, 18, whoo).
I think you have already changed quite a bit, haven't you? Perhaps not 100%, but the inevitable maturations of the turbulent adolescent years no one can avoid. I'm sure of this.
Hahha, you could easily get bored of me. I mean, really. :( I'm not that interesting.
I think you've changed a great deal to since middle school too. I'm happy that we changed and matured, but at the same time I'm not sure I want us to change or grow. I wonder if we had the choice to go in time and repeat those days, and possibly alter them...what would happy? What would we choose to do?
i'm not bored of people. more like disappointed. and i'm disappointed in myself. but i know i shouldn't be. and you shouldn't be, either. we need to love ourselves before we can love others, and we need to love others. if we don't love others, what else is there to live for?
there's always something about ourselves that needs to be changed, whether we want to change or not. but i don't think we have to necessarily reinvent ourselves in order to love ourselves. i think it's more important to just accept who we really are.
I always wonder... what about those people that you meet sometimes that seem hateful? Those people who are so egotistical who believe that they are always perfect? Do they have excellent self-confidence or are they just delusional?
Isn't it such a great deal to expect out of people? To ask them to love you despite your flaws?
I wonder why this generation was born with such awful self-esteem issues. >.<
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Welcome back! ♥ Hopefully your stay will not be as short-lived [crosses fingersI don't think it's possible to truly "reinvent" oneself, because everything we do becomes an extension of who we already are. Our behaviors and patterns, once recognized, seem like traps. But I think the best we can do is simply to learn to embrace the qualities we have, especially if others already do, and work on our weaknesses ( ... )
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I like you too. ♥ I probably more than like you, I love you and I need you. I always come back to you and livejournal because you're unfailingly present.
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...There is a core component that you can never erase. But maybe that means it will just take a while longer to completely transform. We're still pretty young if you think about it (19, 18, whoo).
I think you have already changed quite a bit, haven't you? Perhaps not 100%, but the inevitable maturations of the turbulent adolescent years no one can avoid. I'm sure of this.
I could never get bored of you.
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I think you've changed a great deal to since middle school too. I'm happy that we changed and matured, but at the same time I'm not sure I want us to change or grow. I wonder if we had the choice to go in time and repeat those days, and possibly alter them...what would happy? What would we choose to do?
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there's always something about ourselves that needs to be changed, whether we want to change or not. but i don't think we have to necessarily reinvent ourselves in order to love ourselves. i think it's more important to just accept who we really are.
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Isn't it such a great deal to expect out of people? To ask them to love you despite your flaws?
I wonder why this generation was born with such awful self-esteem issues. >.<
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