Hmmm...a lot of mine are similar to yours: intelligence, strength (ditto), humor, creativity, compassion, uniforms... Then I'd add black, silk, leather, the little triangle that is formed at the hip, Alan Rickman's voice...
The first two things I notice are smile and eyes (especially if his smile reaches his eyes. Damn. That's hot.) Then intelligence and a sense of humor, a maturity.
Honestly, one of the biggest turn-ons for me is a guy that doesn't walk right up and hit on me or attempt to get in my pants without...um, learning my name? Vocation? Anything that means something to me? I am so over the guys who openly gape at me (and undress me with their eyes) who try the corny pick-up lines and think that's going to work. Use the brain in your head, dumbass, and use THAT to try to get with me.
In all seriousness, in the year and a half I've moved to Kentucky, there's only one guy who has passed the five requirements (not married, no kids, non-smoker, over 21 but under 30 and not living in his mother's basement playing X-Box all day. Or, you know, just doing something productive with his life.) and probably the biggest turn on is he's nice to me without being sleazy. It goes a long way.
Wit, heart, intelligence, strength, humour, ability to laugh at life and oneself, passion about whatever one is into, creativity, Slytherin ;-), grace, presence and carraige, and intense eyes.
Brains, glasses, southern accents, snark, priests, neckties, broad shoulders, thoughtfulness, animal lovers, vests, cufflinks, indulgence of my ridiculous hobbies, hipbones, eyes, chivalry, charm, and long black wool coats. Not that I've thought about this a lot, or anything.
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Honestly, one of the biggest turn-ons for me is a guy that doesn't walk right up and hit on me or attempt to get in my pants without...um, learning my name? Vocation? Anything that means something to me? I am so over the guys who openly gape at me (and undress me with their eyes) who try the corny pick-up lines and think that's going to work. Use the brain in your head, dumbass, and use THAT to try to get with me.
In all seriousness, in the year and a half I've moved to Kentucky, there's only one guy who has passed the five requirements (not married, no kids, non-smoker, over 21 but under 30 and not living in his mother's basement playing X-Box all day. Or, you know, just doing something productive with his life.) and probably the biggest turn on is he's nice to me without being sleazy. It goes a long way.
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So out of curiosity, I've got to ask - why the 30 cut-off limit?
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MmmmmmmMmmm and dreamy, bedroom eyes... rawr!
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Physical: wide shoulders, great eyes, interesting smile, great legs and gingers are always high on my list. :)
Mental: confident, intelligent, positive, pragmatic, assertive and funny.
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