Apparantly I can't be trusted

[slavetothemuses]

People obviously see me as the mega-admin-bitch from hell, or else they wouldn't be complaining about stuff to other people. :(

You know what, I don't know who it is, but it'd be nice if you did talk to me. Right now I'm very tempted to just shut the fucking whole forum down and give the data and software to whoever is willing to do the hosting.

Comments

[sweetmaddness]

that wasnt what I meant at all by any of the things I've said in our private messages. I was refering to one section of the forum, a section that's much diffrent from the rest of the forum and has special needs. No one that I know of has a problem at all with the way you manage the forum. Everyone thinks AAA is a great place and you do a great job running it. One section was all I was refering to. One. I'm not sure how I gave you this impression that what I'd said refered the forum as a whole, but I appologize, I never meant to give you that impression. And if this is just a heat of the moment, need to rant somewhere post, then you can just ignore this comment :) I know the need to vent at times and LJ can be a good place to do it. I just didn't want you walking away from the forum just because I'd given you the wrong impression about how I feel.

[slavetothemuses]

Well sorry, but if you tell me that several people have complained to you about stuff and I never heard about it, then frankly I'm just pissed off. I've spent a lot of time on the forum and I've put my own wishes behind many times because I wanted to run the place the way people liked best, and in return people seem to expect me to know stuff I can't possibly know or they complain about stuff, but not to me.

I can deal with the problems at AAA and I won't leave the place, but I'm fed up with the position of having to deal with stuff that boils up between users. Not directed against you, this occasion is rather mild compared to other things I've dealt with. It's just the one more thing that reminds me how much energy I put into the place and how little I get out of it.

[inanis_sum]

Dorte did I ever tell you how much I love AAA. I do, really.
And Nat's completely gone, even cut me out, so you'll never have to deal with that again.

[phist]

i didn't complain... obviously. im never on there! *hugs dorte*

[doomynic]

i'm really sorry to this this. one, that people are complaining and two, that you feel you get so little out of it. I think you are the coolest admin ever, you do a fantastic job and if people complain it's their fucking problem, because you run the forum really well. I love that place and it wouldn't be the same without you. I think problems between members will happen at every forum, and i hope when you've had your time off you'll feel better, because you deserve only appreciation and admiration for making AAA what it is.

[angelicrazyness]

I'm so sorry. I mean I didn't even know things like these went on! I've never heard any complaints and from the bottom of my heart I can say: I love you for running this wonderful place called AAA and I think you're a great admin. Personally, I don't have anything to complain about. But I can understand that you're pissed. I can't even imagine how much eefort you put into the forum because I've never done something like that myself. But I want to thank you for doing this. *hugs Dorte*