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Jun 07, 2005 22:40

Today was a great day. I went shopping with my friend and bought some new shoes and pants, and then we sat at Starbucks and had a nice talk about the usual shit. She asked me what I wanted out of a relationship, and for once I really had to think about it. I suppose I want what everyone does - loyalty, fun, good communication, trust, great sex, ( Read more... )

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revolutionary79 June 8 2005, 04:48:24 UTC

I look for whats beyond the superfical things.. intentions drive determination. Those are the specifics.. then I just take it as it comes.. that's how it used to be now I just take one day as it comes because things are constantly changing for me.

slow_burn_ June 8 2005, 05:02:52 UTC

I try to have that whole "take it as it comes" mentality too, but there's times when I want specific things, and if he/she can't deliver, I get annoyed. I know it takes time to really find out what's below a person's surface, so if they can keep my interest long enough, I might be surprised. I don't know...maybe that's why I have so many failed relationships, because I don't know what I'm looking for.

revolutionary79 June 8 2005, 05:06:22 UTC

I know the feeling too well.. but unfortunately my end the failures have been alot due to misplacement of trust on my part

slow_burn_ June 8 2005, 05:09:11 UTC

Trust is a sticky issue. I don't think any guy I've ever dated has trusted me, and I don't know why because I've never cheated. It hurts, to say the least.

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slow_burn_ June 8 2005, 05:17:21 UTC

Well said, you're exactly right. I often wonder if the people I'm dating are putting up with a lot from me, because I know I'm insanely stubborn at times.

6stringnemesis June 8 2005, 17:16:20 UTC

re-lay-shone-ship?
okay maybe i am still a little gun shy of such things, but i remember my standard answer to the question of what i look for in a partner
i look for someone who likes me

envelopepush June 12 2005, 17:09:08 UTC

At some point, with regards to seeking out a new relationship, you have to let go and let happen whatever it is that will happen. It's a maddening prospect. It isn't necessary to know what you want. It might even be detrimental. Discover who the new people are and don't overlay it with your expectations and desires. It can be tough. It is tough. But when it pays off, it pays off in spades.