.I meant to make this post yesterday, but I'm so crappy..

[smashley_2oo2]

-:- RIP -:-
Aunt Shelley

November 1, 1927 - December 20, 2002

~ Taken like the wind...

...Taken with the sky ~

Fly...to your castle in the sky

Miss and Love You Like No One Would Ever Believe . . .~
<3 <3 <3 ROAR. I have too many death anniversaries to remember

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i know how it feels

[vee_el_tee]

i'm sorry :-\

the death of loved ones sometimes never seems to get better, or so it seems at certain times..... the "stages of grieving" are rediculous because they give people like a month for each "stage" when in reality you never let go, and its never the same for each person...

yeah, i sound like an asshole now probably. sorry :( <3

Re: i know how it feels

[smashley_2oo2]

This is where I'd say "it's ok", but it's not..so I'll skip that part and say thanks.

It may sound horribly bitchy of me to say - and it's not my intention at all, but I don't think you know how I feel..Having 3 people die in a matter of 2 months and 20 days, and one being a 7 month old baby, is the lonliest, most horrific experiences that could happen to a person...It's nearly impossible to understand unless you've experienced it for yourself - and I hope you never do.

<3

Re: i know how it feels

[vee_el_tee]

i haven't experienced such pain, and of course i am terribly sorry that you and your family have had to go through such a horrific time. but i have lost loved ones, family members, gawd, my best friend died of cancer. i've lost people who have meant the world to me, just like you have. i'm not comparing myself to you, i was just trying to help justify that the feeling never really dies. i'm sorry to have offended you......

<3

Re: i know how it feels

[smashley_2oo2]

Like, I'd said - I didn't intend for any of that to sound bitchy..And it didn't offend me at all. I realize that most people have dealt with death before, but what I'm saying is that for you to say that you know how it feels - under these circumstances - is saying a lot that's no true. I know losing one is extrememly hard and I'm sorry for anyone who's had to deal with it..I'm not making it trivial and saying that people should pity me b/c I've lost 3...

<3

[unique_oblivion]

Hey Ash, I'm sorry to hear about the people in your family; losses are hard and I feel for you! :0) Just get this, your loved ones are angels now and they're with you wherever you go! *~

Kim

[smashley_2oo2]

Hey!
Thanks so much! That really means a lot. :)

xoxo, Ash