Warnings: Woobie and death.
On the drive home, I had this idea to write a post about how thankful I am for the friends who’ve gotten me through the last few years and how much better I am now. I sat down at the computer, pulled up a file, and realized it was a lie
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Here's the thing about coping mechanisms: they get a bad name, yeah, but they do allow you to cope. And there are times you need that buck up, swallow down, move on thing. From what you've said, your ability to do that helped keep your entire family going. Give yourself credit for that.
But then remember that you're allowed to feel things. The grieving and sorrow and anger and heartbreak make sense, and I hope at some point you can let these things out where they can be part of the HD picture.
Well, probably because I’m afraid I’ll never stop.
Funny thing about emotions: they seem even bigger and scarier when you're bent on ignoring them than they do when you face them head-on. I'm positive you're strong enough to feel grief without being lost in it forever.
*hugs again* Love you. Let me know if you want to talk or anything... I'm free most evenings except Friday.
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I can't add anything to what Nicki and Isha have already said, but I'm here if you need anything, and I'm sending you all the warm fuzzies I have.
<3 <3 <3
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