I, not wanting to fuel her narcissistic supply, shrugged my shoulders and said, “No, actually, I think you miss yourself more than I could ever miss you.” I waved good-bye as I got into my car, knowing it would be our last visit. My intent was not to hurt her, but to plant a tiny seed. Maybe it would someday sprout. Maybe
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In a way, I wanted to believe she couldn't help it. Maybe it was all she knew. Giving up one's narcissism is tough. Narcissism can be alluring, soothing, warm and dependable - when you are filled with insecurities. It is always present and omnipresent. It is custom tailored to the needs of the individual - the needs of the narcissist only. You mean absolutely nothing to the narcissist, unless you are there to fuel their narcissistic supply. They think you are giving to them because it is their due. They will consume your energy. If you do not supply them with the adoration, admiration, approval, applause or attention they need…they become depressed or sometimes, obsessive. It can be quite a painful experience for the non-narcissist. Especially if there has been a genuine investment of time and care for this person
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