And men say women play games.....

[smrtblnde096]

Monday evening, Paul and I were sitting in his living room just hanging out talking. He sits there and asks "how I do it". Well he was referring to my being able to make him stop being angry or forget entirely about his anger with me and start falling for me again. I said I dont do anything to him and I am just myself. Well he then started saying

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I told you our love would never work out

[flowpattern]

Yeah seems like a classic case. He fell in love with you because of your outgoing personality, you being you. But once a relationship happened he expected you to stop behaving as the person he fell in love with because he isn't confident enough to think he can hold on to you. He's built in his mind that he got you by chance and you only like him, that once someone better comes along he lose you to him. Since your such a great person and meet new people and hang out with them that the chance of you meeting someone else is 100%.

He needs to trust you and live with the fact that we're all open to be vulnerable. You also need to be open and straight to the point, tell him that you don't care who his [idiot/non-moral] past girlfriends were but you never cheat on anyone. He'll never find [love/be happy] if he can't place faith on anyone.