Comments | smurgen: I can't even thing of names for these subject thingies

smurgen

I can't even thing of names for these subject thingies

Sep 11, 2007 01:09

I feel like I'm losing touch with the few friends I have. I barely talk to anyone anymore and I wonder what I can do to stay friends.....or if I should even bother. Things seem to be going good for them without me, so I guess I shouldn't hang around where I'm not needed or wanted.

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evillaugh September 11 2007, 08:41:07 UTC

This can happen from time to time... mainly when your friends all move on to do things. Sometimes you'll have friends that think about only themselves so much that they'll only use you for their own ends too. It's the truth!

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evillaugh September 11 2007, 19:43:10 UTC

fucking lol

this made me smile

turtlelything September 11 2007, 13:05:48 UTC

I know what you mean here. My IRL friend moved to go to college and she rarely ever acknowledges my existance... Except at times like when she's asking me to go to a con...when, if she was paying attention she'd know/remember I have /no/ money, there's no way I could leave here, and my mom's in the hospital. Some years before this I was REALLY depressed, to the point that I practically sent her a suicide note and she didn't bat an eyelid over it...all she wanted to do was keep talking about how cool she thought her boyfriend was. (of course I'm not THAT depressed now though) x.x Oyi for the self absorbed sorts ( ... )

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turtlelything September 11 2007, 12:52:26 UTC

*hugs* Hey, don't think I've left you behind. It'll be hard to get rid of me...unless...you know...you actually TRY to get rid of me. And yeah x.x things aren't going good for me by any stretch either. Sometimes I just don't know what we should talk about. It gets like that some days when I see a lot of someone...especaily given the boring gigantic routine that is my life.

smurgen September 11 2007, 20:59:53 UTC

Holy moley, I went to work and come home and my journal exploded!
Ok first things first
I totally didnt mean Hyrina OR Mei when i wrote that post. I talk to the both of you every single day and you know I <3 you guys.
I didn't IM you Hyrina cuz it wasn't about you at all. I don't even know where you got that idea....
I just have 5 friends in the other circle of friends that are kinda all slipping away at once. I didn't wanna drop names cuz I didn't want anyone to feel they did anything wrong or whatever.

evillaugh September 11 2007, 23:16:22 UTC

I thought it seemed a bit random for someone to suddenly come out of nowhere and start assuming things like that to be honest. I swear I wasn't instigating anything, despite how often I try to cause trouble.

Smurgen, the best thing to do is to do your best to keep in contact. I'm having similar hassle myself right now, but I honestly find that...

"if people aren't talking to me, either they are really busy or just not interested."

People really do drift apart, I want to hammer that point into you as much as possible because it's true. The only thing you can do is to try and spend more time with your other friends and hope the others come back some day. It shouldn't come down to you.