no-brainer.

[snappedchopstic]

on the train home just now, jean and i were chatting and agreed that among our clique of friends, i tend not to think deep on issues. i mean, if something happens, i just let it happen and then let it go, without pondering much on it. yeah, this occurs usually

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[k5memo]

別這樣。
妳可以的。
請妳相信自己。

[snappedchopstic]

im too stuck in my depressed and inferior rut to internalize ur words.
but thanks, really.
u like to type in chinese characters.

[k5memo]

其實不只在電腦上，在現實中我對中文真的十分喜歡。妳不要難過。There are alot of shits in this world. But. They are good stuff because they teach you strength and courage or something like that.

When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place.

[yiwin]

Hello sch bud

[yiwin]

hahah FENGSHUI?!

aft speaking up in class ytd, i felt worse, because prof was the one who summarised my points the way i wanted it to be.
"the rags to riches classic structure of the story". hahah. this, i couldnt find the words for -.-'''

but anyway, thanks a lot sch bud (: i forsee more of such down-ess coming along, and i think i'd need the support of u and jeanie.

haha i will be seeing u laterrr!!

PS: dont worry about the tear-paper incident. small issue only laaa.

[thebubbleburst]

hmm i feel that if you feel that you're not ready for this, then don't do it!! yes it is a good experience but ultimately i feel that health & good grades are more important (: don't overwork yourself okay! take it up only if you have the confidence that you can handle everything.

-big fat mega virtual hugs<3

[snappedchopstic]

i think that's really good advice, and i tell myself the same thing too.
it's just that pinch of regret and disappointment,
but i think i will get over it soon enough.
thank you so muchhh, vitual hugs and all (:

moralising;)

[loveatchristmas]

aiyoh, I didn't know the topic will get you into thinking so much all of a sudden!

don't stress yourself out over studies!!and definitely not over what you cannot control.

try to be easier on yourself, I mean I understand how you feel about not speaking up, and perhaps we need to learn that if we don't feel comfortable speaking up, then we should just try, but not get too flustered when we can't. the whole point is to learn and enjoy the lessons, not how many times we speak up or share.

and as for the bus-driver incident, it's okay! we aren't perfect;) and a lot of times we don't do what we want to do, but we can just do it better next time. no point beating ourselves up over it.

haha, that's my organised moralising for your post=)

so sharon, think, but don't let your thinking turn to negativity or pessimism. let your thinking be a motivation to let things go and move on:)

love you!

Re: moralising;)

[snappedchopstic]

heh. it's not that la.
i have been thinking alot already recently.. just tt our conversation's topic sparked off sth in me.
haha. thanks jeanie, i know at the end of the day, i still can tell u about all that i think, and i'll get some good advice (:

PS: im super touched u logged in as loveatchristmas. hahaha.

[anonymous]

Haha..you are a complete ASS! You are good as you are, and dont let anyone-even yourself-say it different. Hmm, I dont know if it helps..but if you sit at the front of the class and just focus on the teacher, the words come out easier. Of course....the more you speak up, the easier it gets. But, its seriously the culture inbuilt in us. So, dont beat yourself over it..beat the MOE, beat the society, beat the humble chinese way of thinking. They are the guilty parade darling.

By the way bimbs, you are not suppose to think too much, period.
loves! grace