"I feel like some object that was put here so that people can use me to talk about themselves and make themselves feel important for a few seconds." - Perhaps they don't mean it with a malicious intent. Perhaps they, too, are trying to make a connection and are merely trying to relate. Connection is about sharing, not one person going on and on.
I suggest finding new friends who appreciate you. I spent a while being friends with people who talked over me, didn't hear me when I spoke, or ignored me completely. Screw that, neither one of us needs to put up with that kind of treatment. You're a good guy, you'll find some great friends.
And don't be so nervous about talking to girls. That'll help the awkwardness I think.
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- Perhaps they don't mean it with a malicious intent. Perhaps they, too, are trying to make a connection and are merely trying to relate. Connection is about sharing, not one person going on and on.
I suggest finding new friends who appreciate you. I spent a while being friends with people who talked over me, didn't hear me when I spoke, or ignored me completely. Screw that, neither one of us needs to put up with that kind of treatment. You're a good guy, you'll find some great friends.
And don't be so nervous about talking to girls. That'll help the awkwardness I think.
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