I'm so sorry this year has been so shitty... And I miss the Oceanaldi spirit tbqh, which you're mentionning for April...
Losing a grandparent sucks. I know, such a fucking cliché, but yeah. When I lost my grand father, I couldn't deal with myself. It's been 3 years, and I don't think my family ever got over it. People are living away and rarely come back to the main house... My point is that even though it's "natural" for grandparents to pass away, it's still terrible :(
hey, it's not been all bad! I've gained lots of perspective from all of it and grown, and I'm a happier person now. But thank you so much for the sympathy. I miss oceanaldi a lot, too - in a way I feel like you guys kept me going over the past few years, to put it dramatically.
It really is. Like, people tried to comfort us by saying "well she was really old!" but there is just no way of avoiding how heartbreaking it is and how much it tears up a family. I'm sorry for your loss, and thank you so much for understanding. I hope you've been well?
The important thing is to overcome it (and not get over it, which implis no growth whatsoever) and be stronger and wiser at the end of the day...
Grandparents are so precious... My BFF, Flo, just discovered that her uncle had a daughter who is 17 and never cared about it or knew about her. The girl is reaching out to Flo's family, and the first thing Flo told me was "it's so sad she only gets to meet us and not our common grandparents. They would have loved her, and they would have made up for the shitty family she was tossed in."
I'm well enough! Some days are a bit meh, but that's life! On Tuesday, I'm watching my nephews all afternoon long, I feel so giddy bout it... If it works well, perhaps my sister will consider hiring me as a nanny, which would be such an amazing gig tbqh....
I'm sorry things have been rough sweetie but you are such a strong and amazing person and you will come out on top! Hope your new adventures in NC are great. ♥
I'm so sorry you've been through quite a few shitty things this year, darling! :( I'm so sorry about your grandma, I totally understand how that feels ;'( And ugh, depression. I know how that feels too. Honestly, 2012 has been a really crappy for me overall, what with depression and everything else as well. And that sucks about your friends :( I'm so glad you got to meet Tim though! and see Radiohead! 8D and also the move to NC sounds really exciting. Are you still living there now or was it a temporary thing?
oh and just because REASONS (reasons being i can't comment and not include something like this, plus I hope it puts a smile on your face 8'D)
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Losing a grandparent sucks. I know, such a fucking cliché, but yeah. When I lost my grand father, I couldn't deal with myself. It's been 3 years, and I don't think my family ever got over it. People are living away and rarely come back to the main house... My point is that even though it's "natural" for grandparents to pass away, it's still terrible :(
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It really is. Like, people tried to comfort us by saying "well she was really old!" but there is just no way of avoiding how heartbreaking it is and how much it tears up a family. I'm sorry for your loss, and thank you so much for understanding.
I hope you've been well?
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Grandparents are so precious... My BFF, Flo, just discovered that her uncle had a daughter who is 17 and never cared about it or knew about her. The girl is reaching out to Flo's family, and the first thing Flo told me was "it's so sad she only gets to meet us and not our common grandparents. They would have loved her, and they would have made up for the shitty family she was tossed in."
I'm well enough! Some days are a bit meh, but that's life! On Tuesday, I'm watching my nephews all afternoon long, I feel so giddy bout it... If it works well, perhaps my sister will consider hiring me as a nanny, which would be such an amazing gig tbqh....
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I'm so glad you got to meet Tim though! and see Radiohead! 8D and also the move to NC sounds really exciting. Are you still living there now or was it a temporary thing?
oh and just because REASONS (reasons being i can't comment and not include something like this, plus I hope it puts a smile on your face 8'D)
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