Notes on Marriage Part 6

[soaraway]

Notes on chapter 6 of Rabbi Pliskin's book, "Marriage":

• People have different feelings about what a quarrel is. Some people enjoy as lively give and take, while others feel this is a quarrel.  If either spouse in a marriage considers something to be a quarrel, then there is a quarrel.
• Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.
• When you see that

Comments

[nevarren]

I'm no Rabbi, but I'd add that if your spouse remembers you saying something differently than you recall, know that the important thing isn't being right about what you did/didn't say, but what you do or don't say now.

[soaraway]

Thanks, Clara, that's very wise! You don't have to be a rabbi to know good marriage tips :P