why do i let it bother me??

[socogal23]

ok so i kno i probably shouldnt be feeling like this, but i cant help it. yes i will admit im am jealous. but at the same time happy(?). im happy that they both have each other and have awesome times together. but then it makes me sad cuz i wonder why we never hang out together like that or maybe im not considered one of the people they always have

Comments

[ironbutterfly08]

Danielle, people have different friendships with different people. People don't always need to hang out with each friend at the same time. People have individual lives and different things they like to do with different people. Two people hanging out without a third or fourth party does not mean that they do not like their other friend any less or anything of the sort

[socogal23]

ok...first of all i was planning on talking to you about it but you didnt happen to be online at the time so this was my option. secondly, i dont expect all of us to hang out as a big group everytime. i know ppl need one on one time. and the entry wasnt about me wanting to be there with both of you, it was me just saying i wish we could hang out more (one on one if that is what we wanted) and that i wanted to know that we had a strong friendship as well. thirdly, how would you know that that it isnt my thing? just because when suggesting plans i come up with things that arent always at someone's home? well ususally i dont know what else to suggest or i feel like someone wouldnt want to just hang out. and if i dont get feed back how am i supposed to know? also, personally i could never be bored when i am with a friend(s). thats just me, but i always enjoy spending time with my friends. yes we can be bored, but at least we are bored together

[ironbutterfly08]

I was never fighting!! There's a such thing as leaving a comment to tell someone something without the intention to fight!

[twistedajaxdc]

it's nothing to do with you,
me and daf needed some us time after all the fighting we've been doing. i invited her over to hang out. just because we want to spend time togethor, the 2 of us.. doesn't mean we like you any less.. or want to hang out with you less. i'm glad we're friends again, i'm glad we've been hanging out a lot lately. and i want to keep doing it. but that doesn't mean that me and daphne are going to stop spending "alone" time togehor.. just like it doesn't mean that you should stop spending "alone" time with daphne, or linsey, or katie or anyone. I know that you can't help the way that you're feeling because.. well, they're feelings, but just because me and daphne hang out doesn't mean we don't love you! we just need some us time. and where are you? i want to hang out!

[socogal23]

thanks, i know that you guys need alone time too...thats why im happy that you guys have each other and stuff. plus i can understand why you needed it. my fun meter was running low and my lonely meter was running high.... haha we should def make plans!!

[twistedajaxdc]

well, i hope you feel better!

[socogal23]

its only cuz you helped me!