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softfirelight

EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION HEARING-RESOLUTION

Jul 12, 2007 17:47

My Master's Hearing for the Equitable Distribution of the Property was yesterday, Wednesday, July 11th. I always knew that Rob's girlfriend Debbie was the driving force behind all the decisions, but my suspicions were confirmed yesterday at the hearing. She was there with him! Can you believe it? Not only was it confirmed by her presence, but his ( Read more... )

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ngakmafaery July 12 2007, 23:06:18 UTC

...well, I'm very glad you pooped that poop out, even though he was stuck in sideways...! It sounds like it's superworth it to be done, and figure you learned a lot, are much healthier and happier, and free from a lot of unfinished business...and John is great! What a guy! Plus I hear he makes great speeches too...whoohoo!!! ahaha!

softfirelight July 13 2007, 17:12:48 UTC

I'm glad he's out of my life too. It's just a matter of waiting for the final decree. I feel better knowing I'm financially protected. John and I lived in fear of Rob doing something that could affect me. John is a great guy and yes you are right he gives terrific speeches! Our furry critters sat as his audience, you would have died watching it. They all sat in a row watching and listening to him practice his speech. It was so cute. Even Esther the dog sat up and listened, we were all there as his audience, a true family working together--priceless.

ngakmafaery July 13 2007, 20:35:40 UTC

..it's scary to have any of your fate in the wrong hands...

anduril_phoenix July 13 2007, 01:25:53 UTC

*hugs* I hope it works out for you. And I still hope he has to pay out the ass.

softfirelight July 13 2007, 17:14:08 UTC

It's coming to a close finally. He will get his in the end. John thinks his girlfriend will clean him out and I believe she will. They will run through his thrift saving plan money because he now has free access to it. I told John that he'll be through it in a year. I know him. He's going to take a cruise and then buy a car. I would bet on it.

anduril_phoenix July 14 2007, 03:44:31 UTC

Sounds like it.

colinftm July 13 2007, 03:56:58 UTC

I'm glad this is on its way to being done with, what a load off for you! He doesn't sound like a nice guy at all. But John sounds like a total doll and I am so happy for you!

softfirelight July 13 2007, 17:10:11 UTC

Rob is a loose a cannon. His girlfriend really doesn't know exacty how loose he is. John is awesome. We definitely have a bond that will last the test of time. I'm happy for me toooo!! Hehehehe. How was your wedding? Your a married man now aren't you?

colinftm July 13 2007, 20:41:19 UTC

Yes, Miss Charli and I were wed on the 9th of last month. It was a beautiful day.

blue_leaf July 13 2007, 12:07:36 UTC

AH! We can now begin a new chapter of our lives, free from fear of what Crazy Rob will do and how it would drag us down. He is now responsible for his own actions. I did have moments of fear that he would wreck his car or something that would affect you financially, not to mention his behavior.
I still remember that one arguement I had with him when he spit on me in frustration. I hope Debbie knows how to handle his violent moods, but maybe he has found his Mommy figure in her, She certainly calls the shots.

softfirelight July 13 2007, 17:18:09 UTC

I remember the argument too and I think Debbie is thinking that I'm this harpy and it was all my fault. She doesn't realize the true man he is. She and Rob belong together. They both lie, she's a convicted felon, and he wants that Mommy figure and she wants control. They deserve each other. In the end though, he will be no different towards her or with her then he was with me. The fact that she's altered her appearance to look like me is saying something--one he has an image that he wants and she's insecure enough to change herself so he will be happy. That's frightening and the fact that they all start to be molded into me! Ack, this type of flattery I don't need--it's too creepy.

We are safe from him and his craziness. We are legally protected and that is what counts. Our new chapter is just beginning. Now we get to plan our brains out for the wedding--oops--I can plan my brains out--hehehe--you want to elope. Smiles.

blue_leaf July 13 2007, 18:30:45 UTC

Elope! Hmmmm what a good idea, but I want you to have a special day and sharing it with family and friends is good too!

blue_leaf July 13 2007, 16:36:06 UTC

PS, I love you very much and I am looking forward to our wedding day.

softfirelight July 13 2007, 17:18:41 UTC

I love you too and I'm also looking forward to our wedding day--which day will it be? There's the burning question. Smiles.