FRIENDS ONLY JOURNAL FROM NOW ON!

[sohokitten]

I just want to apologize to anyone who read the offending post that made me go "Friends Only".  The whole thing was taken way too far and became hateful.  Thats why I have decided to make my journal FRIENDS ONLY from here on out.  If you add me as a friend and I add you back you can read my journal, otherwise you can't.  I hate having to do this

Comments

[irishdaphne]

I read that and I think it's horrible for those anon posters to leave comments like that!

[luxdilemma]

Oh they TRIED to talk shit, but they didn't know who they were fucking with! Oh, that wasn't very adult was it? I am still fuming about it. You are one of the nicest people I now, granted, I've never met you face to face, but I can't imagine anyone hating you at all. It's like someone hating the Easter Bunny or something.

[sohokitten]

i'm just sad that they had to take such cheap shots. i might be missing something but did i really say anything that would warrant such an attack? i was being genuinely honest about how i felt, not mean in the least. that last anon. comment (from this guy's brother whom i've never even met) is totally making me out to be some horrible person who wants to destroy ryan's life and all i really was saying was that their music was really good and i didn't want them pegged as another "band with a chick bassist" but if thats what they want then they can do it. i just want them to succeed and i never once said anything about wanting to break up the band. :(

[luxdilemma]

You shouldn't think too much about it. Obviously this person was way below average intelligence. I don't think anything you said had a whole lot to do with the comments this person posted. And even if you did write something mean or cussed out some people. IT'S YOUR JOURNAL. They don't have to read it. No one's making them. I don't know who this person is but they act like a 13 year old. So you now who it is? What does Ryan say about it?

[sohokitten]

yeah, its the guitarist, the guitarist's girlfriend and the guitarist's brother. he called ryan last night right when we walked in the door from me getting out of work and was like "you should go look at alissa LJ" and said he was too mad to talk about it anymore so we logged on and I found all those horrible comments (and the nice ones from you guys!) and was just stunned. since ryan also happens to work with his guitar player, he confronted him at work about it and I guess he apologized. we used to all hang out occasionally but i never see that happening and its kinda sad. the other thing i really don't get is why his girlfriend is spying on my journal. thats just creepy. you know what they say "curiosity killed the cat". so anyway, she told her boyfriend and his brother about the post so they could all have an insult party i guess. blah. i know the things they said are so far from the truth its almost laughable, but i never imagined people i thought were decent would stoop to such a low level. oh well, i'm gonna have a

I'm so sorry darlin

[echokittie_]

I cant believe it got so crazy. I understand why you are so conflicted - there are some very hate filled people in your life. My thoughts are with you... some of those comments didnt even make sense - I am just shocked. Good for you disabling anon comments - anyone who is that gutless doesnt deserve to have an opinion. xx

[dollyday]

good for you,noone needs that kind of shit.your journal is for you to write down how you feel about anything you want.its a shame people are so pathetic and mean,i hope it didnt upset you to much sweetie:-)

sorry about my very immature post but i couldnt resist telling the tard what i thought of them hehe!

Tell the person they can just kiss your ass because you don't want to hear what they have to say

[diana_molloy]

It's a shame you had to lock your journal because of some tosspot. I hope this poor excuse of a human being (or was it beings because from your entry it made me think it's more than one person?) didn't upset you too much. Anyone who feels the need to air their shit like that and annon too is just not worth your time, energy or worry.

Re: Tell the person they can just kiss your ass because you don't want to hear what they have to say

[sohokitten]

I'm sorry but that is the fucking funniest icon i have seen in a long time. i just almost choked on my vitamin. anyway, it was three different people. one of the people i've never even met left that last comment about me not being a good mother. isn't that nice how they all ganged up on me over something so innocent as my opinion? i am just disgusted.