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[solasignislupus]

how does one maintain a healthy relationship with someone who is 2000 miles away?
especially when that person is leaving for south america in july
where she plans to stay for a least 9 months
that is longer than i have even known her

....is it futile?
im sure that at least one person who reads this knows how well i do long-distance

Comments

[randomsaint]

Do you let it go now or hold on to it until it's gone?

[randomsaint]

Not that what I said is really helpful.

[randomsaint]

What is the relationship worth to you?

[solasignislupus]

cant say really
she always seemed like the type that i could live with for the rest of my life
but at the same time i don't know that i even really miss her right now
im not sure if that is just cause in general i don't miss people much
or if it cause i am ok with not being with her...
regardless, I feel as though i will regret ending it
and part of me also says i need to.

[lilylovesjack]

Andrew lived 4000 miles away from me, so I assume that long distance works for some people...

[zodac]

nick, good sir, i'd give you advice on that, but i can't even manage to maintain a friendship with a girl that i care about whom i see every week. regardless, i wish you and yours the best and i hope it all works out for the best.

[ladysita]

if it were me?

it'd be futile. but that's because i'm crap at long distance things.

if she means enough to you, go for it. you never know.