i want to hang out and i talk to people and put myself out there and i never get anywhere. ,,why do i always have to be the one to try so hard????????????
If I read that correctly... i know EXACTLY what you mean.. about the putting yourself out there part. One thing that I learned from quaker camp (yes, quaker camp, no i am not a quaker) was to just put yourself out there. Start with a group of people you trust, ie your friends or family or whatever, and build confidence. We had to read poetry there and I could barely hear myself speaking my heart was beating so loudly. But no one made fun of me, they even clapped and some one complimented me. A completely new idea to me.. just DO something and dont worry about being criticized (that was all in response to the "put myself out there"). If i misinterpreted that, well i feel pretty stupid. lol
Thats part of what i mean...i have that problem to..i put myself out there to much and get rejected so i dont want that to happen again..i feel rejected when i try so hard just to be someones friend and like hang out with them..like i care more about them than they care about me...i hate not having that confidence in myself..maybe i should go to quaker camp lol
haha.. quaker camp.. I learned plenty of things there and it waws useful, but you dont have to go to quaker camp to figure it out.. it just helps. Just put yourself out there, like to some one you trust first, and then little by little, person by person, you'll be able to do the hsame thing in front of more people.
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ps. who were y ou reffering to?
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