the resolution

[somethingsafook]

things were set in motion the moment you come out of your mother's warm womb. and goals were set without you ever realizing.
suckling
lifting your head up
sitting up alone
solid foods
teeth
walking
talking
running
potty training
playing with othersand that's just for the first 4 years of your life. didn't know you had to do all that did you?

Comments

[juniethan]

hi i like this better. the black was harsh.

anyway, yes i am pretty darn thankful. if i'm down in the dumps i think to myself, hey it could be worse. and it just goes to show how small my problems are. i'm thankful for my problems. lol

yes

[somethingsafook]

yes. it's all about perspective. or rationalization. however, did you know that rationalizing your problems away is considered an immature defense mechanism?

Re: yes

[juniethan]

then i guess i'm immature. it's all about perspective. one person can see it that way, another person will see it differently

Re: yes

[somethingsafook]

well that's the thing. i dont tihnk immature at all. that's why i hate these definitions. but whatever. maybe its immature because we are not really facing reality? and distorting reality to make it work out for us? is that immature still?