So, as some of you may know, I am a big fan of Matt Bomer (actor, plays the ex-conman on White Collar). I think he is positively delicious; I'd probably rate him the most attractive man I've ever seen
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No, I hear you on that -- I think that whether or not you consciously fantasize about *actually* getting together with an actor or the character they play, there's something in the subconscious mind that likes the *potential*, even though the possibility is utterly remote, and you may be utterly uninterested in pursuing romantic/sexual relationships (at all, or outside your current relationship, since I'm using the meta-"you" as opposed to you-specifically
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Yeah, I'm apparently one of Those Women, the ones who find themselves attracted to gay guys over and over. Happens in real life as well as with movie stars, heh. My closest friend when I worked at Disney was a guy who told me that if he wasn't gay or if I had the right equipment, he'd have been just as interested in me as I was in him. (Interestingly, that guy was not pretty in the way Maher or Bomer is; it was his personality I found interesting.)
I've made the loss to womankind joke, but it really is a joke to me, too. And usually, what I mean is that it was a loss to ME! *snort*
I can't say I'd want to pursue either of them in real life. I'm wired to be very much monogamous, and I've met the guy who fits with me, so that kinda takes everyone else off the table, no matter how pretty they might be. Absent some kind of catastrophe that (heaven forbid) breaks us up or worse, he'll be my last romantic and sexual partner, y'know?
(I know what you mean -- I'm not monogamous, but I'm polyfidelitous, and I'm very happy in my current relationships and really can't envision ever having the emotional or physical desire/inclination/time/energy to ever start a relationship with anyone else . . . and I'm TOTALLY okay with that. Although I wouldn't argue with having some more spoons to spend on my Dearly Beloveds!)
I'm really glad that you *have* met the person who you feel that way about -- you and your fiance always sound really well-suited when you talk about him, and it's awesome that you guys have each other :)
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I've made the loss to womankind joke, but it really is a joke to me, too. And usually, what I mean is that it was a loss to ME! *snort*
I can't say I'd want to pursue either of them in real life. I'm wired to be very much monogamous, and I've met the guy who fits with me, so that kinda takes everyone else off the table, no matter how pretty they might be. Absent some kind of catastrophe that (heaven forbid) breaks us up or worse, he'll be my last romantic and sexual partner, y'know?
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(I know what you mean -- I'm not monogamous, but I'm polyfidelitous, and I'm very happy in my current relationships and really can't envision ever having the emotional or physical desire/inclination/time/energy to ever start a relationship with anyone else . . . and I'm TOTALLY okay with that. Although I wouldn't argue with having some more spoons to spend on my Dearly Beloveds!)
I'm really glad that you *have* met the person who you feel that way about -- you and your fiance always sound really well-suited when you talk about him, and it's awesome that you guys have each other :)
*hugs!*
<3!
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