As I was reading your entry, I was thinking about how on an airplane the flight attendants give that safety lecture, and they always say that if the oxygen masks drop down, put on your own mask before attempting to assist anyone else. Because if you can't function, you can't help anyone else.
You need to take care of yourself. You can't always carry the weight of everything on your shoulders, because eventually something will give. Maybe this move would be a good thing, in that you'd have a support system in place that might be better than the one you currently have.
Obviously you know you have to weigh the pros and cons before deciding anything. But I'd definitely recommend driving down there and seeing what's what. It's not like you have to commit to a move immediately on the spot.
*hugs* We're trying to work out a weekend when we can come down. Witchy girl that I am, I want to literally touch the dirt and see how it feels down there.
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Reading this hurt my heart, a little. Not because you shouldn't have posted it, but because it's such an eloquent description of a crap situation.
I hope things fall into place in a way that really works for you.
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As I was reading your entry, I was thinking about how on an airplane the flight attendants give that safety lecture, and they always say that if the oxygen masks drop down, put on your own mask before attempting to assist anyone else. Because if you can't function, you can't help anyone else.
You need to take care of yourself. You can't always carry the weight of everything on your shoulders, because eventually something will give. Maybe this move would be a good thing, in that you'd have a support system in place that might be better than the one you currently have.
Obviously you know you have to weigh the pros and cons before deciding anything. But I'd definitely recommend driving down there and seeing what's what. It's not like you have to commit to a move immediately on the spot.
Good luck! *hugs*
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Sounds reasonable to me!
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