Friend Zoning.

[sophocles]

So there's a few things we need to clarify first, Please bear with me and actually read this before I'm flooded with comments from rage feminists, dude bros, or sensitive new age douche bags claiming that I don't understand

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[sylphon]

I have to admit, I have had a few instances where it turned out that the guy was just pretending to be my friend to get into my pants. Heck, I've had friends that were just friends for nude pics too*. Just kind of blows my mind. Whatever happened to being friends for friendship?

*One of my high school ex-boyfriend/friends kept touch through the years and we maintained a friendship, but then a few years ago he started asking for nude pictures. I didn't have any nudes but had some corset pics, so I'd sent those along for his amusement. Then he came back with the bomb that he was married monogamously but wanted naked pics of me because he missed me and wanted to hook up again. Um no. Even if he wasn't in NH with me in GA, just no. I don't help with cheating folks. So when I turned him down (very gently actually) for naked pics, he ended the friendship we'd had since 1987 point blank. He wrote once more a few years later to see if I'd changed my mind, which I hadn't, and I haven't heard from him since.