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[sosmindtrip]

you know what pisses me off? when your boyfriend is living with you and is always receiving text messages from his ex girlfriend. and then when he responds after you asking him not to even mention her name in a previosly discussed incodent, on your anniverary. yeah. tops off the cake doesnt it

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I hate boyfriends.

[tatamcpancakes]

Sounds similar to my situation...One of my boyfriend's friends...He introduced me to her back in September and told me they were really good friends. Apparently she had said even though him and I were dating, I would have to deal with the fact that he was still going to see her and she had joint custody of him (wtf, who says that?) I asked him if anything had gone on between them in the past...he lies, then yesterday *I* found out that they didnt date, but he did love her, and she shot him down twice (which would explain why *she* hates me because I took her play thing away) not 5 months before we started dating...so he is obviously still into her somewhat since he still wants to hang out all the time (and when they go out, she holds his hand)...Thats a very couple like thing to do. And he obviously wants to continue having her around so she can toy with him and keep him around whenever she wants him. What bothers me the most is I asked him numerous times if he ever liked her more than a friend, and he lied to me for almost 4 months.

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[sosmindtrip]

well i dont hate my boyfriend at all lol, BUT i do hate the situation. and believe me, I can totally relate. Yeah it's almost a toying situation here...and he also madem e meet her! he took me back to his home town for thanksgiving...and we went out one night..and then she called his cell and all i heard was "ok kendra we'll see you at delanye's" and i waslike...omg what? i have to meet ur ex (before we were dating all i heard was about this girl. how much he was "stuck in the past" and wired her $100 and she called one night while i was with him and he left the roomand started talking all sweet and stuff to her.

and mine did love her..he told me so. he didnt lie about anything...which i am very thankful for....but he still wont just be with me...its me with the othergirl grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Re: I hate boyfriends.

[tatamcpancakes]

Im sorry. I dont hate him either, but I feel like I cant trust him because he flat out lied to me about the situation...and has been lying, for 4 months. And now I feel like a chump. And like I cant trust him, and I dont know what to do. He told me he wouldnt see her anymore...but...it doesnt change the fact that he his this from me and they had this little secret and now I feel like a poor man's rachel.

Re: I hate boyfriends.

[sosmindtrip]

lol. its ok...his answer to me when i brought it up was something to the effect of "well ur the one who asked who i was text messaging"