Do we block our own sexual fulfilment?

[soulsex]

We all know that intimacy and a loving, emotional connection with our partner is the most important thing. We know there is no greater turn on than how we are treated, especially if we're treated with love and respect. But if we do not love ourselves first, just as we are, with our perceived faults and shortcomings, can we love another? I have

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[soulsex]

Yes, the sharing and journaling is helping, gladiatorxxxx. And yes, the multi-orgasmic experiences are new, probably one reason for their occurrence is as a result of opening up so much in this journal. That's why I keep posting questions/issues regarding how we limit ourselves. I am seeing that the more I move past some of these internal blockages, shame, guilt, fear, embarrassment, etc...the easier it is to free up sexual energy. if you put a stone in the river, the water can't flow freely, can it? but if you remove the stones, one by one, the water just naturally flows again

[soulsex]

My, that was a short trip, gladiatorxxxx. Glad you made it home safe and sound. And very happy to hear you got a standing ovation upon arrival. No need to go into details. Sometimes using one's imagination is the hottest thing a person can do. So let me just sit here and imagine what happened for you last night. OMG....that's amazing....LOL

Never know for sure, dear gladiatorxxxx, if I'm going forward or backward. Yes, the multi-orgasmic sensations are a definite sign that I am going forward. But I am not sure if there is such a thing as too much exposure, too much freedom, too much breaking down of boundaries. i often wonder if being reserved and shy (shameful, etc.) has its benefits, its upside, shall we say.