Yes, I think you're right. Average is about 5 inches or so, i've heard. That makes your guy twice normal size, which I find incredible.
Yes, yes...I definitely recall the photo you posted. It;s an amazing pic. Of course, he had his underwear on in that pic, so I can't really see him well. But I can imagine what he looks like.
I've never been with a guy that large. Do you have any problems with his size? Any pain during sex or have you come to prefer a little pain with your pleasure?
I've just had my hubby which is about 6/7. Sometimes he's just too thick for me. The first time with him wasn't the greatest but as we got to know each others bodies it's gotten fantastic and we have lots of fun.
Hubby is very similar in size to my Bf. I am very happy with that size, as well. although, I sometimes fantasize about a larger guy...some of them look so delicious, I do admit. and it's fun to fantasize.
i don't have any experience being with larger guys so i don't know if it would be painful or not. Several responses I have received to this question (actually most of the responses) have said it is painful when a guy is over 8 inches.
Part of my problem is an accident I had when I was a child. It's made me a little smaller I think than is normal and super sensitive. I can organism incredibly easy.
It is very fun to fantasize. I think my biggest thing is I just love cocks and if the guy can use them well I'm all for that. ;-)
I don't think your hubby is small at all. He is actually a very nice size...a wee bit larger than average. if you are comfortable with his size, then you can handle a larger cock.
I'm learning that guys come in all shapes and sizes...some of them are huge. I don't think i could handle anyone over 8 inches without some pain.
I love cocks, too. It's fun to fantasize and chat about other's fantasies. What do you love most about cocks? The look? Feel? Do you have a particular size/shape that really turns you on?
God only knows. Huge. Incredibly painful. I asked, but he'd never measured.
Don't. That's about what I can take. You aren't missing a thing. I bled again, even though I didn't lose my virginity to the guy. I had a much better time with my last boyfriend, who was about 6.5. I had my first orgasm and everything. The not-so-huge ones are much better for getting at the g-spot.
Also, some guys who are well-endowed think that their penis means they don't have to try during sex. I personally despise that kind of cockiness. . . haha, bad joke :)
hmmm, interesting. you asked but he never measured. You couldn't come up with an eyeball seat of the pants guess?
Don't the large ones look amazing to you, mais? I mean, come on, a girl has to fantasize sometime.
well, egotistic guys, big or small are a turn off...I do agree with you on that one. i don't have the experience of being with larger guys so i cannot say if they tend to be more egotistical or not. Love the joke....a pure maisism.
Pretty darn large if you're right. and you're saying an 8 incher is not really your idea of a barrel of laughs?
That's really interesting to me. thanks for your honest feedback. I'm surprised you don't enjoy looking from a distance. i realize that the thought of having sex with a guy that is too large is not necessarily a pleasant thought. i do understand that. but I thought you still might fantasize about oral with a large guy or maybe doing something with him.
it was a pure mais moment. wonderful sense of humor. thought "mais-ism" fit the bill. yes, i see what you're saying....stupid and insensitive, likely...although, I do not want to put words in your mouth
The largest I've ever expirienced that wasn't a toy was 11 inches.
Honestly I don't think size matters, and it's take a lot of expirience to come to that opinion. I mean the guy that I was with that was 11inches was just...nothing. Not good. Nothing to get me grabbing the sheets and screaming my head off. I've had guys smaller who were ten times as better.
I think that the bigger the size, the cockier that guys can get [No pun intended]. They think that because a size that I can't even wrap my lips around that they'll just get me cumming the second the thrust in. But it does not work that way unless you're as bad as a female dog in heat.
I think the smaller guys tend to actually work harder to get me to cum, and sometimes they don't always actually make me cum but at least they put that effort in.
OMG! 11 inches is huge. I've never even seen up close a cock that size.
So many responses are saying that cock size is not such a big deal (no pun intended). Not sure why the porno films and magazines always sell that fantasy-you know, always depict guys with large cocks and women swooning over them, as if that is what really turns us on ...but it's not that simple, as you point out.
I love what you say about a guy's attitude in bed. That's a great point! What bigger turn off is there than a guy who thinks he is all that because of looks alone....
I don't know about other women out there but a big ego is the last thing I want to cozy up to when I'm in the mood.
If size is not the thing for you, what do you fantasize about? Does it have anything to do with the look of a cock or is it more about what the guy can do with it and who he is as a person?
Well a lot of my partners were never around long enough to figure out who they were as a person. They were mostly one night stands.
Though when I have sex I don't fantasize during it to get me to cum. Simply because I'm having sex because I'm horny.
But to keep me going to the person mostly would be how he/she was in bed. I mean it's a waste of my time to sleep with them again if they weren't something that was rather extremely good. You know?
Mostly what I fantasize about like say when I masturbate is simply hard, passionate sex. And I don't use the word passionate as a way of 'love' or great for, but as lustful.
Is it important for you to like the guy you're with, to have a close relationship or just that he be good in bed?
It's really interesting that you can have a great sexual encounter without loving the one you're with or even feeling a strong emotional connection with him or her. Why do you think that is? So many women say that they need to feel loved and have a sense of intimacy first before they are able to open up sexually?
Don't get me wrong, I relate to what you're saying...but It isn't the "typical" response.
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and ive already posted pics of my biggest in ur journal ;)
hes a hair shy of 10 inches
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Yes, I think you're right. Average is about 5 inches or so, i've heard. That makes your guy twice normal size, which I find incredible.
Yes, yes...I definitely recall the photo you posted. It;s an amazing pic. Of course, he had his underwear on in that pic, so I can't really see him well. But I can imagine what he looks like.
I've never been with a guy that large. Do you have any problems with his size? Any pain during sex or have you come to prefer a little pain with your pleasure?
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Hubby is very similar in size to my Bf. I am very happy with that size, as well. although, I sometimes fantasize about a larger guy...some of them look so delicious, I do admit. and it's fun to fantasize.
i don't have any experience being with larger guys so i don't know if it would be painful or not. Several responses I have received to this question (actually most of the responses) have said it is painful when a guy is over 8 inches.
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It is very fun to fantasize. I think my biggest thing is I just love cocks and if the guy can use them well I'm all for that. ;-)
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I'm learning that guys come in all shapes and sizes...some of them are huge. I don't think i could handle anyone over 8 inches without some pain.
I love cocks, too. It's fun to fantasize and chat about other's fantasies. What do you love most about cocks? The look? Feel? Do you have a particular size/shape that really turns you on?
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Don't. That's about what I can take. You aren't missing a thing. I bled again, even though I didn't lose my virginity to the guy. I had a much better time with my last boyfriend, who was about 6.5. I had my first orgasm and everything. The not-so-huge ones are much better for getting at the g-spot.
Also, some guys who are well-endowed think that their penis means they don't have to try during sex. I personally despise that kind of cockiness. . . haha, bad joke :)
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Don't the large ones look amazing to you, mais? I mean, come on, a girl has to fantasize sometime.
well, egotistic guys, big or small are a turn off...I do agree with you on that one. i don't have the experience of being with larger guys so i cannot say if they tend to be more egotistical or not. Love the joke....a pure maisism.
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No, they honestly don't. They look bloody frightening. Not all of us have the same fantasies.
Mais-ism? lol! I think my bcg (big-cocked guy) had a hell of a lot of nerve, but I think he wasn't so much cocky as stupid.
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That's really interesting to me. thanks for your honest feedback. I'm surprised you don't enjoy looking from a distance. i realize that the thought of having sex with a guy that is too large is not necessarily a pleasant thought. i do understand that. but I thought you still might fantasize about oral with a large guy or maybe doing something with him.
it was a pure mais moment. wonderful sense of humor. thought "mais-ism" fit the bill. yes, i see what you're saying....stupid and insensitive, likely...although, I do not want to put words in your mouth
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Honestly I don't think size matters, and it's take a lot of expirience to come to that opinion. I mean the guy that I was with that was 11inches was just...nothing. Not good. Nothing to get me grabbing the sheets and screaming my head off. I've had guys smaller who were ten times as better.
I think that the bigger the size, the cockier that guys can get [No pun intended]. They think that because a size that I can't even wrap my lips around that they'll just get me cumming the second the thrust in. But it does not work that way unless you're as bad as a female dog in heat.
I think the smaller guys tend to actually work harder to get me to cum, and sometimes they don't always actually make me cum but at least they put that effort in.
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So many responses are saying that cock size is not such a big deal (no pun intended). Not sure why the porno films and magazines always sell that fantasy-you know, always depict guys with large cocks and women swooning over them, as if that is what really turns us on ...but it's not that simple, as you point out.
I love what you say about a guy's attitude in bed. That's a great point! What bigger turn off is there than a guy who thinks he is all that because of looks alone....
I don't know about other women out there but a big ego is the last thing I want to cozy up to when I'm in the mood.
If size is not the thing for you, what do you fantasize about? Does it have anything to do with the look of a cock or is it more about what the guy can do with it and who he is as a person?
Thanks for the feedback.
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Though when I have sex I don't fantasize during it to get me to cum. Simply because I'm having sex because I'm horny.
But to keep me going to the person mostly would be how he/she was in bed. I mean it's a waste of my time to sleep with them again if they weren't something that was rather extremely good. You know?
Mostly what I fantasize about like say when I masturbate is simply hard, passionate sex. And I don't use the word passionate as a way of 'love' or great for, but as lustful.
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Is it important for you to like the guy you're with, to have a close relationship or just that he be good in bed?
It's really interesting that you can have a great sexual encounter without loving the one you're with or even feeling a strong emotional connection with him or her. Why do you think that is? So many women say that they need to feel loved and have a sense of intimacy first before they are able to open up sexually?
Don't get me wrong, I relate to what you're saying...but It isn't the "typical" response.
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