Those hot techniques...

[soulsex]

Care to share your secret weapon in the bedroom? That hot technique that is a cinch to drive your partner wild? Is it a certain spot you touch? A particular stroke you use? The flick or slow caress of your tongue? The gentle play or sensual touch of fingers, lips, certain body parts

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[cocoancream]

hmmmm...
ill have to think about this...

were into "harsher" lovin so...
heheheh

[soulsex]

Hi cocoancream. great to hear from you.

You like it rough? Doesn't that lead to bruises and pain? I'm a wimp. I like pleasure without the pain. hmmm, maybe I should try whatever it is you do....would love to hear more about it.

I just dicovered the frenulum (actually a friend told me about it) a few years back. and wow, i had no idea that lightly stroking that area on a guy can send him through the roof. now i want to learn more. there must be other techniques people have experienced that are just as powerful, maybe more powerful out there. I hope people are willing to share a few of them.

[soulsex]

Hi gladiatorxxxx. Always good to hear from you. And thanks for the feedback.

I just discovered the frenulum a few years ago. It's an amazing place to apply one's focus. Yes, indeed, the tongue is the way to go....very light strokes do the trick, as I've learned. Apparently, this technique works for you, as well?

Now on to your next suggestion. I've never had the guts to explore that area of a man or have him explore me there. Is it hygenic to play in that way? I see tons of videos on youporn (the site you put me in touch with) where guys and gals are exploring anal pleasure. It definitely looks pleasureable...yet, hmmm, how do i put this, not sure I want to insert fingers and tongues, etc. I guess i fall into the gal with a few hang ups category.

Is everyone else out there comfortable with anal play?

[nympho_bi_chic]

I had meant to reply to this entry last night but my computer was acting schitzo.

Mainly when I'm having sex [With a guy, I won't include my female partners], I can tell when they're going to cum. And depending on what position were in excluding anal sex when I notice he's getting closer to cumming or he actually tells me, I tighten my inner muscles. It's a great last shove to send both of us usually for cumming.

But when it comes to say going down on a guy, I use my tongue piercing for the sole sexful purpose it's for. Usually when I'm sucking a guy I'll run the ball of my piercing for my tongue up and down the whole length of his cock and even sometimes add a hum. It tends to send them shaking. Hehe

[soulsex]

This is great feedback..

I want to explore both of the "techniques" you mention here. They really sound incredible. Thanks for sharing them.

Is there any trick to tightening your inner muscles? It sounds as if it all comes down to timing.

Does it matter what side of his cock you run the ball of your piercing over? I assume you get the best reaction when you run it over the underside of his cock?

Are you being gentle with the pressure you apply or really digging into his cock hard with that ball?

[nympho_bi_chic]

Any woman can tighten her inner muscles, and mostly your body does tighten some down there right as you're having an orgasm, it just takes a work out to do it that would send a guy crazy. What you can do to work your muscles, is sit up straight on a flat, firm chair. Breathe in, and while your breathing in flex yourself down there. And soon you'll find yourself without having to breath in deeply while you do it. I always do 10 'flexes' while just sitting at my desk when I work at the salon. It not only helps you be able to have that control and pleasure a guy when he's close but it also helps you stay tight.

But when it comes to my tongue piercing I run the ball in a swirl around his cock, but mostly I give the most focus on the underside. I am in no way digging the ball into him, or soft feather touches. It's the same amount of pressure you would use to gently run your finger down his arm without you know moving or pushing his skin. If that makes any sense.

[soulsex]

I'm sure I can learn to do these exercises and strengthen my inner muscles. Thank you for sharing this technique. I'm excited to try this out on my guy. I have a feeling it may take a little practice. But I can just imagine what it might do to him. And then the thought of orgasming together...at the same time....mmmm, it really sounds incredible.

In a "swirl" around his cock? Tahhh, thanks for clarifying that. And I'm imagining I should not apply much pressure at all on his cock because if i'm not moving or pushing his skin, it has to be a very light touch. Plus, I can always listen to his vocal cues, you know, his moans and groans and observe his movements and reactions to make sure I'm not overdoing it.

[mais_biensur]

Well, my boy and I are not yet far enough into bedroomy stuff to tell, but I like to slide the tips of my fingers suggestively just under the top of his pants. . .

[soulsex]

That's a great technique! I'm writing that one down. It's so simple but I bet it is super effective. What kind of reaction (in the past) have you gotten with that one?

[mais_biensur]

Heavier breathing, more intense kissing, hands going all over me, my boyfriend taking his pants completely off last night. . .

[soulsex]

Your "boyfriend," meaning the Serb, took his pants all the way down last night? Wooooo...mais, you must tell me what happened? That's awesome.