what's love got to do with it? maybe everything?

[sourglares]

so i was just lurking around facebook and thinking about high school and st.catharines and what not. i noticed one of my friends had her ex from back then in her top friends. if i recall correctly she lost her virginity to him. for some reason i was a little jealous that she was able to maintain a friendship with him (although there is a good

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[weinerdawg]

i can relate. i am not friends with one of my ex boyfriends and it bothers me a lot, but i know that we just cant be.. for many reasons. the other boyfriends i am still friends with and it really does make the relationship seem meaningful and worth something, to me anyways.

now dont get me wrong i made a lot of bad choices in my day too and i regret a lot of them and i don't talk to those mistakes, but i can't blame anyone but myself for those.

making those mistakes, did make me appreciate the good choices i have made and push me to stop making bad ones... i know how shitty i feel after a bad mistake happened and how its really not worth it. so i try to think that those bad mistakes r just helping me to be a better person..

and i mean, it sounds like, as much as u may look back and have regrets too from time to time, u really r in a happy place right now, so it was probably all worth it, right?

[sourglares]

oh for sure. i have someone who loves and appreciates me now and puts up with a significant amount of neurotic bullshit from me.

it's like you said though, staying friends would have made a lot of those past experiences seem meaningful. instead a lot of them just feel like a waste of time. sometimes i wonder if i learned anything from them or just became more emotionally unstable and with holding.

[staticat]

i better bring a box of wine for this trip.