For those not on my Facebook or Fet

[southernstyle]

JUST in case you missed it. I had the following realization yesterday. It has literally changed my world.

"My world just opened up with a realization that damn near brought me to tears. I have spent my life trying to compensate for what I perceived to be a poor and unappealing appearance. I do not, nor have I ever needed to compensate for my

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[unrepentant]

I've never been comfortable with my looks. This led to me being extremely shy. I think I've learned to accept that I am not a good looking guy - just is what it is, y'know.

Best wishes to you & your wife, my friend. Happy holidays to you. Stay true.

[unrepentant]

Yeah, I missed this since I deleted both my Facebook & Fetlife accounts. I'd nuke my LJ but it seems a shame to completely destroy a decade+ of my thoughts in both my journals on here.

[southernstyle]

Why nuke everything, bro? Something going on you need to talk about or work through?

[unrepentant]

Just in a very ugly & short-tempered mood these days. Stress from work & this legal crap has kept me in a bad mood for the past few months now. What little interaction I do have with people, I seem to wind up saying something that upsets people. Better I just disappear until this stuff works out. I don't need to lose any more friends - I have few enough left as is.