I don't know who posted this comment, but I just had the same thought myself. Nice timing. However, he doesn't go on LJ very often, so I'd be surprised if he's logged in since the last time he posted.
And I'd be surprised if he even remembered my request.
So...what about it, Mikey? I don't think it's a major request. You don't want to be my friend anyway, and if you do, you have a lousy way of showing it.
I'm not the prime example of a good friend, I know you've given me many of chances to redeem myself, and everytime I failed you.
You may not believe me, but I still do care about you. And I don't know why that pisses you off so much that I can still care about you. So, I take this as good bye, since you also told me I'm not allowed to call you anymore. But remember this, if times are desperate and you need something from me, and you have no one else to turn too, I am not an enemy.
I don't hate you. I just have no faith left in you (can you blame me?) and I don't want to deal with you right now. Having you in my life is not healthy for me. You never even apologized for the crap you pulled in December, you just called me drunk a couple of Saturday nights ago and expected everything to be okay. That's NOT how friends operate, and you know it.
I can't keep giving you chances because it's not emotionally healthy for me, and it's not going to help you grow. You need to make the effort with people. If we were to be friends again, I'd keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. It would be useless.
I look at you, or see your name, and all I feel is negative energy. The bad outweighing the good. Maybe that'll change, maybe it won't, but I just can't have you around at this point.
Anyway, thank you for respecting my wishes and taking me off your Friends list.
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And I'd be surprised if he even remembered my request.
So...what about it, Mikey? I don't think it's a major request. You don't want to be my friend anyway, and if you do, you have a lousy way of showing it.
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I'm not the prime example of a good friend, I know you've given me
many of chances to redeem myself, and everytime I failed you.
You may not believe me, but I still do care about you. And I don't know why that pisses you off so much that I can still care about you. So, I take this as good bye, since you also told me I'm not allowed to call you anymore.
But remember this, if times are desperate and you need something from me, and you have no one else to turn too, I am not an enemy.
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I can't keep giving you chances because it's not emotionally healthy for me, and it's not going to help you grow. You need to make the effort with people. If we were to be friends again, I'd keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. It would be useless.
I look at you, or see your name, and all I feel is negative energy. The bad outweighing the good. Maybe that'll change, maybe it won't, but I just can't have you around at this point.
Anyway, thank you for respecting my wishes and taking me off your Friends list.
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