That's something my Idol Wong Hei used to say. I love it as well. I always tell myself & my friend that.
But I dun think I can pratice tht as I'm really emotionally unstable now. I'm feeling so DOWN that I dun have mood for everythingI do.
Today I report to work happily till I receive a SMS. Then all the day down till unknow. No mood to do anything. "Stone" & I mean stone the whole morning liao. Also making mistakes as well.
So sorrie I dun think I'll be going to yr gathering tommorrow. Send my apologies & regard to Matt, Sam, Clar. Maybe out for coffee when I'm better?
hey actually you should go you know. so that you can take your mind of the things thats burdening you now.
why not have coffee with me(i'm a good listener) haha....
Alrite to prevent yourself from making more mistakes dont do much work today. Thats my advice, i went thru before this emotional thing before. i keep making mistakes and cannot do things right.
you can't flip to the back of the book for the answers to life.
you have to live it.
if you let one bump along the road affect you, how are you coming to complete your journey?
if you never see that every problem is a chance to make yourself stronger, better, how will you grow? how do people learn to ride a bicycle? by falling many times.
meaning to life, happiness, is all in your own hands. nobody can give it to you. it is your own to grasp. if you let yourself be affected by one small thing, then it's your own choice.
I see. Well, I really appreciate all the comments u give. I guess u are right my friend. guess no one's life is smooth. I agreed with u every problem is a chances for me to learn something new. I cannot change the facts But I can choose to learn from it & to "gain" experience. I guess, I really need tome time to my own to sorts things out.
Maybe I need a small chat with u then. U really know how to handle situations well. Hope I can be like u.
i have inner demons to wrestle with too. i have just as much shit as everyone else. just that i don't talk about them unless talking about them helps me overcome them.
what i try to focus on is to deal with those that are within my power to deal with, and deal with them one by one.
if you see the marathon as 42 kilometres, it would be daunting. but if you see it as one step at a time, it'll be easier for you to complete it.
"if your actions can improve the situation, persist. if your actions cannot improve the situation, you're wasting time and energy. if your actions makes the situation worse, what the hell are you doing?!?!"
Will keep that in Mind. I'll try to learn from u Miak. Really Appreciate yr common a lot. Makes Sense & I think u gone thru quite a lot as well. Will keep that in mind.
This posts prove one thing. U r humane and can think. Don't you find yourself fortunate, to be bless with the gift of thoughts and living well. If we think too much, we end up in agony always! Thus, I always restrict mine tots,go with the trend at times, go against when bored and life is just beautiful.
Conclusion, a good brain can think too much, a bad brain can't think, but a better brain is one which is good and controllable!
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But I dun think I can pratice tht as I'm really emotionally unstable now. I'm feeling so DOWN that I dun have mood for everythingI do.
Today I report to work happily till I receive a SMS. Then all the day down till unknow. No mood to do anything. "Stone" & I mean stone the whole morning liao. Also making mistakes as well.
So sorrie I dun think I'll be going to yr gathering tommorrow. Send my apologies & regard to Matt, Sam, Clar. Maybe out for coffee when I'm better?
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why not have coffee with me(i'm a good listener) haha....
Alrite to prevent yourself from making more mistakes dont do much work today. Thats my advice, i went thru before this emotional thing before. i keep making mistakes and cannot do things right.
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Ha ha ha ha ha.... I cannot dun do much work later. I'm hosting a meeting later on. Hope I dun do much do MISTAKE later on.
ha ha ha ha ha ha.... So Coffee?
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you have to live it.
if you let one bump along the road affect you, how are you coming to complete your journey?
if you never see that every problem is a chance to make yourself stronger, better, how will you grow? how do people learn to ride a bicycle? by falling many times.
meaning to life, happiness, is all in your own hands. nobody can give it to you. it is your own to grasp. if you let yourself be affected by one small thing, then it's your own choice.
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Maybe I need a small chat with u then. U really know how to handle situations well. Hope I can be like u.
Thanks for the valuable advise.
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what i try to focus on is to deal with those that are within my power to deal with, and deal with them one by one.
if you see the marathon as 42 kilometres, it would be daunting. but if you see it as one step at a time, it'll be easier for you to complete it.
"if your actions can improve the situation, persist. if your actions cannot improve the situation, you're wasting time and energy. if your actions makes the situation worse, what the hell are you doing?!?!"
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Thanks Very much.
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Conclusion, a good brain can think too much, a bad brain can't think, but a better brain is one which is good and controllable!
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I need to cool out more.
Thanks for all the advise my friend.
Maybe meet up after my test & before my exam lor....
Will ask Matt, sam & ken along okay.
Thanks & regards,
Spacesterpig
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Guess after having so much of advise. I stared to feel a bit better liao. Thanks MY friend for all the advise given to a lost person.
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