confessions of a big, flaming dork.

[spandrelina]

Consider the wedding dress.

Those of you who know me know that I am not the most wedding-y person out there by any stretch of the imagination. However, having been thrust into finding someone I can't imagine not spending the rest of my life with creates wedding-y complications.
I have a friend (a non lj user) whom has been kind enough to become my

Comments

[wookiecess]

You are NOT a dork!

Wedding planning IS stressful & if I could order everything out of a catalog & be done with it, I would.
You know you have a girlfriend in me, sweetie.
My schedule may be chaotic as fuck, but I'm just a phone call away.
I apologize for my fickality over the last couple months but some major changes have happened and I'm trying to rectify that.

Hope to see you Saturday!
Love you!!!!!!! XXXOOO

[spandrelina]

No need to apologize :) You and I should go for a drink. I think that is my goal for Sat night. :)

[wookiecess]

Sounds good to me :D

We'll see what goes on.

we love each other more than a fat kid loves ho hos

[savateuse]

You have no idea how sad and frustrating it is for me that I cant be there to help you. =/ Its not even like you are that far away, but when you dont drive it seems like a a million miles. This is a time when you are supposed to be spoiled rotten by your girlfriends and I am sorely lacking on my responsibilities to the wedding madness, even if its just to take you out to lunch and gab to relieve some pressure. Ugh, frustrating. This dorky chick trapped in KY adores you though! =/

Re: we love each other more than a fat kid loves ho hos

[spandrelina]

When will you be mobile? Summer calls....
Oh, and which Husmans thing is it that you like? Every time I see a bag I think of you. ;)

/bump

[chench]

funny funny, I can't relate to guys at all. I have no guy friends and have never really had any real guy friends. I can only get along with them on a superficial level because I enjoy sports and am very much of a tomboy. But I don't understand how they think and I can never get emotionally aligned with them. Which is funny because you seem to be the opposite.

PS. I make a great shopping buddy. I'm a good listener. I can give decent advice. And I'm very much with the bonding....just not so much with the hugging. I suck at hugging.

Re: /bump

[spandrelina]

Now that I think about it, you WOULD be a fantastic shopping buddy. You have no idea how many times I've kicked myself for not getting your input on my invites. I have all these raw materials and zip on the creativity -but I always think that if I were to ask you for help, Id be giving you more work, and you work so hard!

Maybe if we eat sushi together again this sunday I can pick up creative vibes through osmosis...... :)

I think I have always gotten along better with men because women scare me a bit, not necessarily because they are more in tune... I got to understand the simplicity of their language, you know? Surprisingly, not all of them are neanderthals, which I found quite nice :)

and we don't need to hug, we're a /bump crew. ;)

Re: /bump

[chench]

ha, argheth, can't do sushi on Sunday because I have to work on my design stuff.....blah. i'll keep you updated.

Re: /bump

[spandrelina]

poo... much sadness. Definitely lunch tuesday?

[spaztasterastic]

if you wanted to talk, you could always reschedule. you know that I have time.

[spandrelina]

I didn't realize I had all of this inside till this morning. Maybe we can't spend time at my place, but we could walk around downtown and along the serpentine wall, maybe see the city from atop carew tower? Lemme know what you think!