Comments | spangie_spooky: Right

spangie_spooky

Right

Apr 16, 2008 12:47

So, I'm going through a rather rough time financially. I recently paid off all of my credit card bills. (Hooray!) I had to take out a personal loan with someone in order to do it, but this person is someone that I see all the time and I am giving back what I can to them every month. I have a full time job, but this just covers the bills that I ( Read more... )

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nosferotu April 16 2008, 20:29:53 UTC

Finally recognize you have a problem with taking care of your responsibilities and do something to start dealing with/fixing this problem so that you won't come up against future problems caused directly by a problem that you've known about for years?

spangie_spooky April 16 2008, 20:42:21 UTC

So is this a question or a solution?

Maybe just a painfully obvious thing to say...?

I know it's one of those.

nosferotu April 17 2008, 01:37:37 UTC

It's a painfully obvious thing to say. The question mark is to underline the fact that you already KNOW the best advice ANYONE could offer you, but are still asking for advice. Stop asking. There isn't a magic fix-all solution, or one that's going to be immediate and easy. You know the solution already - it's your turn to take responsibility and make it happen, rather than holding out for an easier solution.

spangie_spooky April 17 2008, 06:35:56 UTC

I am not perfect and we all know this. I needed to vent. I didn't want anyone to feel as if I was trying to borrow money from them. I just wanted to get it all down and get many other perspectives. I know I'm a total fuck up ( as stated), but I really want to get my shit together. Maybe I'm depressed...I dunno. Probably am.