Comments | sparkfrost: Holy Shit, a Wedding Approaches

sparkfrost

Holy Shit, a Wedding Approaches

Aug 26, 2013 20:39

Bwah, ok - less than one month to go before the wedding, and I had my first horrific breakdown Friday before last. It was great, let me tell you! Basically, I was feeling two things. 1)Overwhelmed by the sheer amount of STUFF that has to get done, and 2)Realizing that this is not at all the wedding I wanted and that its too late to change any of it ( Read more... )

holy shit a wedding

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lostrack621 August 27 2013, 04:03:45 UTC

YAY cake! Yay other stuff! Boo drama! Sorry to hear you had a breakdown -- but according to a couple of my friends, it's totally normal. My friend, Ashley, just got married a few weeks ago and she said she became Bridezilla for the few days before the wedding because it was like, people just couldn't do the jobs they were supposed to do. Me, well, let's just say if I _don't_ have several major breakdowns it will be incredible, considering how everything has been going lately (deets are not worth getting into right now...maybe if I get time I'll write a bit on LJ).

My Mom keeps telling me that if it doesn't end up being all I want, we'll throw another small family party in a couple of years. Maybe you can do that as a special thing you and Palmer can share at some point in the future.

AND BOO to the dude -- it's not HIS decision and more to the point, NONE OF HIS DAMN BUSINESS. I hope you told him so in not so polite words. :P

sparkfrost August 28 2013, 01:07:52 UTC

It's ok - I'm much calmer and happier now, especially with everything we've gotten done. My M.O.H. also didn't get the wedding she wanted (huge family affair) so we're probably going to try and throw a barbecue in the spring or something, so the two of us can party like we wanted to! :-)

Yeah, I mean, it was just silly. I was basically like, Well, I like my name and my fiance doesn't mind, so....

greyweirdo August 27 2013, 19:34:41 UTC

Not long then. If you're going to have one last fling, you'd better have it now.

sparkfrost August 28 2013, 01:08:34 UTC

Ha, VEGAS BABY WOO!

More like, stay here and PLAN ALL THE THINGS!!! And then get crazy drunk the week before the wedding and go bowling with my friends. Which is like Vegas....

greyweirdo August 28 2013, 01:16:37 UTC

What happens at the bowling alley, stays at the bowling alley.