Question...

[spasticbenji]

Okay here's my current situation with Katie. So we were supposed to be best friends which was one of the reasons that we broke up because friendship theoretically will last longer than the majority of relationships. And I believe her when she says the stereotypical let's be friends line because we are friends. Were anyway... So the thing is that

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[meloncollieant]

did the ranting help? feeling better?

[spasticbenji]

not really

[meloncollieant]

that sucks. ::hugs:: call me anytime if you need to

[tahoe_blue]

Hey Ben, I know this is really hard for you. and from what you have told us it seems that she doesn't really care any more. And even though you want her to care, it just doesn't seem like she wants to be friends.

i would say give her back her stuff that reminds you of the relationship you two had, so that you only have your memories to remind you of that part of your life. And then you could try to be friends friends. instead of friends who used to go out.

its always hard (from my point of view) to remain close friends after the relatioship ended, because you are either reminded of all the good times you had, or the ending that you didn't want to come.