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[speedtrials_]

I wish I could know exactly what college is going to be like, because I am so anxious about it. I'm staying in Worcester, so it's not like I'm moving across the country, but thats not really what I'm worried about

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[no_gir]

I'm sure if you want to and or are determined you'll be able to work it out. I would relax and try to focus on it when it comes around. There's no point in worring yourself about something before you know what is going to happen.

I think it wouldn't be as easy as it is now but it's possible. And you should at least try it before stressing about it.

:)

[the_real_dawn]

hey
so my advice, if you want it, don't break up before college. definitely not. i know that some people do but i think that that's just dumb. i think that it really does work out with some people. it depends on the individual situations, and you just can't tell yet.
but don't go into this thinking that it might not work out. do it full steam, like you are. i think that relationships are a lot more important than a lot of people realize. and i think that you guys have a good chance.
if you ever do break up it will be because you both realize that you need to. it will be a good, practical decision. it shouldn't tear you up inside like other break ups might.
some things you can't help. at least, i don't know how

as for the rest of college though, i hear it's a blast.

[speedtrials_]

i think that was amazing advice :)

[mithfalas]

i know it's troubling, but I think the best way to deal is to put it out of your mind for now. There's no use worrying about a breakup when there's no reason to break up (and no, I don't think being separated by a little car ride is enough to break up with someone over, especially if you're as close to the person as you are to chris)

if things don't work out, then things don't work out. but there's nothing to worry about now. for the time being, i'd say just imagine yourself staying with him far into the future. you don't know what's going to happen, so there's no use fretting about it.

[speedtrials_]

thank you :)

[abandoned_shoe]

hey alyssa...

take it from a college pro (me. only not really.. im probs failing out after next semester (j/k)) and do NOT break up with your boyfriend. All you have to accept is that you probably wont see each other all the time. The best part is that youll be going to college at the same time. Its harder when one person is still in high school or whatever, but you'll be experiencing all the firsts that college brings at the same time which will probably make you more understanding with one another. As long as you work at it and trust each other, it wont be a problem. And also, if you want to know what college is like you should come hang out at westfield with me.. i can give you a college life sampling. haha

[speedtrials_]

thats really true about the highschool/college difference. thanks steph

[cheekygrin696]

mmm i pretty much agree with everyone else
take it one step at a time, and what is supposed to happen will happen :)