Anyhow, I am delighted to read you and John might be working some things out. I think that's just the cat's ass. :) But I am going to really really hope you kick that smoking habit once and for all.
Ya know, it is harder now to stop again than it was to stop initially. I am ashamed of myself and have set up rules for when/where I can smoke if I have to. So, only a couple of smokes per day... The cat's ass, I don't hear that enough!
I'm glad to hear things are going so well with John! That is very good news. It's clear that you both want it to work out, otherwise neither of you'd still be there. Good luck, my dear. I hope your brother is right about hitting rock bottom. It sure sounds good *hug*
Thanks! I just hate the lack of trust. See, he was seeing someone on the side...and that still hurts so much. I just didn't go into here, or anywhere really. He seems to understand the trust issue and accepts that. But we are having sex again....;)
Oh that's harsh. And of course you've lost trust! But it is possible to get it back. My dad cheated on my mom with hyis secretary and it nearly destroyed their marriage, they were separated for 8 years. But now their marriage is stronger than ever. And I know she trusts him completely. They've been back together for 10 years. I really hope John has learned his lesson. The good news is seeing someone new may have just proven to him that he's already got what he needs. You're a strong woman. You guys can make it. Having sex is a GREAT sign!! If you want him touching you, you must be able to get past it. My first love cheated on me, so I know how it feels. Chin up, darling. I'm so happy for you that things are getting back on track!
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Anyhow, I am delighted to read you and John might be working some things out. I think that's just the cat's ass. :) But I am going to really really hope you kick that smoking habit once and for all.
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The cat's ass, I don't hear that enough!
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I just hate the lack of trust. See, he was seeing someone on the side...and that still hurts so much. I just didn't go into here, or anywhere really. He seems to understand the trust issue and accepts that.
But we are having sex again....;)
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You're a strong woman. You guys can make it. Having sex is a GREAT sign!! If you want him touching you, you must be able to get past it. My first love cheated on me, so I know how it feels. Chin up, darling. I'm so happy for you that things are getting back on track!
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