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[spiffy_bagel]

i have removed some people from my friends list for privacy reasons, but i may have accidentally deleted people i didn't mean to. if you can only see this message and not any of my past few, or you think for some reason you are no longer my "friend" just comment and i'll add you back.

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[lizzies123]

just to let you know, what yo udid was wrong and you know it, i dont give a fuck if you're my friend or not, but blcoking me is not the answer.

[spiffy_bagel]

YOU SHARED MY PRIVATE JOURNAL WITH PEOPLE WHO I CHOSE NOT TO SHARE IT WITH. IT IS MY DIARY AND MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND I TRUSTED YOU WITH IT. DO NOT PRETEND THIS IS MY FAULT.

[lizzies123]

its not, but hey, blocking is stupid, i like closure.

[iamtherealdeal]

katherine. i have to say this sounds really absurd because your "private jorunal. your diary and perssonal thoughts". if you want them to not be shared, dont put them online. keep them in your head. or write them in a NON online journal or in a word document or something.

and even if you TRUSTED them with it and had a friends list and only had some ppl as friends, the people who aren't your friends are still bound to SOMEHOW read it.

so if you dont want people knowing your "personal thoughts etc" dont post them online.

[spiffy_bagel]

i use livejournal because you can access it from anywhere, which you can't do with a word document. also i hate microsoft word because of its automatic changes and stuff. and hannah, please tell me how people who aren't my friends would be able to access my livejournal excluding the whole someone who is my friend showing it to them thing. and it's not like i was posting anything mean about anyone anyway, it was my life. the only reason lizzy showed anything to anyone else was because she wanted them to be offended and to be mad at me.

[iamtherealdeal]

then use a regular journal.
and no one is perfect, obviously if you write about someone, someone is gonna show them.
thats human nature.

"it was my life".
ok then why did you get angry..if you dont write anything mean about anyone.
lj is so dumb.
if you want it as a journal journal, dont do it online
if you say PERSONAL THOUGHTS. those are personal and should be kept to yourself.

and duh someone is bound to show someone what you wrote.
even if they had a mean reason, you still shouldnt hvae this online.
cause it just gets you into more trouble

[spiffy_bagel]

how can you say livejournal is dumb when you do it and you do myspace?
this is just how i keep track of my thoughts.
i hate writing in normal journals because it takes fifty years and eighteen pages to finish one entry.
and there's no reason i shouldn't be able to write about my life here. that's what my journal is for.

[iamtherealdeal]

all i am saying is that you can not get mad at anyone if they show someone else your "private thoughts" because you put them online yourself.

its fine if you have a live journal, just dont get pissed if people read it.
even if they arent your friend
because you put it out there for people because its online

[spiffy_bagel]

i don't want to say that i don't see your point
because i completely do
but the whole purpose of the friends only thing on livejournal
is so that only the people you want to see it can see it
so doesn't it kind of defeat the purpose if other people can see it?